Life and trauma

Are you able to leave if she does show up tomorrow @Former-Member?

I understand that, though do want to point out how much strength you showed in telling her that you don't want her to come back tomorrow @Former-Member

Are you feeling a little safer now that you have the house to yourself again?

Yeah of course, its so hard to set boundaries with someone who doesn't respect them @Former-Member but you can only hope that with repeated boundary setting they'll start to get it, bit by bit

I know that it would be really painful to have heard the things that were said today, but like @MJG017 said earlier, please know that they are a reflection on her character, not on you.

I know, it's so much easier sometimes to believe the bad things over the good @Former-Member

Do you have anything to take your thoughts off this? Any distraction that could help?

I'm off shortly, but if I don't hear from you I'll catch up tomorrow

@Ru-bee I tried to do my diamond art but couldn't even do any. I haven't started a new picture yet but I might later tonight. I have to go out from 7 until 9.30 and that's having to be around other people which I really don't feel up for tonight.

Ahhh that's hard. I hope the outing passes quickly so you can come back to your space and relax @Former-Member