Hi 👋

@Spirit_Healer Great to hear the move is going so well. And Marta is so cute!

Ohh Marta is beautiful 😍 @Spirit_Healer

@Jynx

Woohoo @Spirit_Healer ! Congrats!

I'm glad to hear you are on the mend. You are such an inspiration! I guess you get a long break now?

Thank you for sharing the pic of your cat!

Hello 😊 @tyme , @Spirit_Healer , @MJG017 , @Glisten

Hairdressers today 😊

What's your last day @Jynx ?

Do you work at sane

Hey @PeppyPatti !

How are you! Still buzzing?

Dear @Spirit_Healer

Thankyou for showing your cat Marta he’s beautiful……….

Lucky @Spirit_Healer ……..

Here are my two budgies but I think when Mr Rocker and I move in the future, we will get a dog. IDE love a cat but don’t know if it goes well with birds…..lol

Hi @tyme

Yes, still buzzing but also,

realising that nothin actually changes. I banned my youngest brother from coming because he is a functioning drug addict and he abuses my youngest son. Naturally he still turned up.

I saw my three brothers and

my brothers are all triggered by me.

Me. I’ve been abused, laughed at for years, my brothers have been wretched to me for years:

But they are more comfortable with each other and ………

are triggered by me ??

My two youngest brothers ganged up on me in from of my Mum and started growling at me.

I need to withdraw and let it go. Hard.

My youngest son refuses to talk to my Mum and youngest brother, he told me that Ive taught him about respecting other people. He’s coming to our place for Christmas Day so we bought up for Christmas Day.

@TAB Ide suggest with your sister to act in a way which helps you the best.

Although Im very surprised seeing my brothers so triggered by me. I’ve spent years talking about how to act the best with my brothers individually, shit………..this trauma goes everywhere and I realise whatever Ive dealt with Im mindful what you have done. I always congratulate you ….

okay, thanks @PeppyPatti maybe I'll just leave it re sister.

I'm very sad seeing my three brothers being so triggered by me. I see my

Mum still using her manipulations on old patterns like triangulation ( everyone hanging up on me is simple definition )

And bullying.

I see my brother's getting closer and me getting isolated again. And there's nothing I can do even thou of all the years of therapy to maybe get close to them. And I didn't think of this just might not happen. I may never get close to them.

Dunno if anything but what you want to do is the best thing to do. Can you send her a text or is that too hard ?

I'm just asking knowing it may not be the right thing to do.