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I feel like I cant do any of it any more.I'm worn out from everything.Whats left before me, is more of the same. It just goes around in a cycle. I'm too old for all this. Being there for everyone else. Listening to their woes, helping them out. Pretending I'm fine.My Husband sees im not but says nothing. He has never dealt with my MI..But I guess alot of partners are like that. A hug would do without attachments. I talk and its met with silence, so why bother.I dont want him to fix me,I just need some kind of gesture to acknowledge its rough at the moment.I am all out of energy, and no place to go.
You know I have been reading these posts just now and I am in awe! I love the way we help each through these dark and difficult lt days with links to resources, discussions and wisdom from each other. @Chris..sounds as though slowly your situation is improving, offering to have the grand kids stay is an act of love and great strength! I think your family will appreciate it, it' s tricky with regard to your daughter's anxiety and then your grand daughter's anxiety on top of that..but I think it will be okay in the long run... Husbands, partners, boyfriends, wife's, girlfriends, any one we are close to really can be such pains in the butt sometimes..and yet at other times can be up expected sources of strength and love when we least expect it. To our new member, welcome.. Hugs to everyone struggling each and every day and hours to everyone who isn't struggling but is still worth loving regardless..and especially hugs to ourselves as so many of us fail to love ourselves in all our flaws and our beauty...as @Rick states...hope endures...
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PeppiPattySenior Contributor
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Yes A.lessandra1992 aka Sandy, but we are all celebrating with curly paper things that your back from holidays. How was it?
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kristinSenior Contributor
Re: So tired of the constant struggle
Hey @Alessandra1992
Welcome back! We have missed you!
I hope you had a wonderful break.
Your timing coming back seems to be perfect.
Kind regards,
Kristin
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Unknown userMember
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Unknown userMember
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What's up @Former-Member
From the topic of the posts you've been commenting on, I'm guessing not well.
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