Sounds like fantastic news overall @Queenie I'm happy for you. It's a shame about the respite not being funded - I've heard they are really difficult about that. Maybe you can use some of your community participation funding for an overnight support worker?? Has NDIS told you who the LAC is? Maybe you can get their number and get an appointment soon rather than wait for them. Mine rang me with the details of the plan and which funds can be used for what 3 days after the planning meeting but I haven't heard from her since. NDIS then referred me to a coordinator of supports - did you get funds for one of them too?
The other thing I had to do was get set up on the NDIS myplace portal on the MyGov website. I've done that with help from the CoS. I've only had a brief look at it but apparently you can see your full plan, what has been paid by your plan manager, and what remains in your budget. You can also select who you want to be able to see your full plan.
Sounds like you're on the right track with researching supports available, if you do have a coordinator of supports (CoS) they should help you with that too.
Wishing you well and for things to become clear as soon as possible.
I'm pretty confused too but am planning to set up a profile with HireUp over the weekend (with help from my sister in law (sil). Support workers also have profiles on there and you can book who you want. It's said to work out cheaper than going with SWs employed by larger organisations. It's worth checking out I think.
The other side of all this is working out what activities I want to do and when. But it's another chicken/egg thing coz it depends when the support workers are available.
Hang in there - I know that so much change can be scary, it is for me. Hoping we can give each other tips as things develop with putting out plans into action.