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Help! Someone loves me for me.

Help! Someone loves me for me.

Dear All,

I’ve met the most beautiful human of my life. A man understanding of my mental health issues who sincerely loved me for me. He did nothing wrong in the relationship and tried to support me despite my toxic self sabotage, lying, past cheating and unconscious emotional abuse. I have a chance to show him the love he deserves and desperately need help on how I can navigate a potential future relationship and build trust. I would like couples counselling. I already have individual counselling. Or advice on rebuilding trust. He is more informed and aware of bpd than myself and most psychologists. Please help me save this relationship.warm regards

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Re: Help! Someone loves me for me.

Hi @Dizzylizzy569

Well congrats on finding that person, you are a very lucky person and the funny thing is you already have stated in your post how you self sabotage yourself. So all I can say is reread what you have wrote, you know what you are capable of, so start by realising that finding this person is soo good for you and do your damnest not to stuff it up.

You said that he is very aware of BPD, but try your very best to work on yourself................Asgard

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Re: Help! Someone loves me for me.

Thank you @Asgard 🙏

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Re: Help! Someone loves me for me.

Hiye @Dizzylizzy569

Always welcome, how does today find you, I have my builders jack hammering away, the whole unit is shaking as I type.....Asgard

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