@Glisten wrote:
@Jynx is Happy crying the same as crying with laughter?
For me, I don't think it is!! Crying with laughter is because something is so funny that it's like, all that squishing up of the face makes the tear ducts start up. Or cos I can't get reprieve from the laughter so I end up weeping. But it's not cos I'm overwhelmed with joy, but with mirth I guess.
Happy crying has also never been the result of a joke, but more being overwhelmed with something like gratitude or love - it's usually been in response to like, being unconditionally accepted by a partner in a moment of vulnerability and then have them say or do something so meaningful I just get overwhelmed and start crying happy tears, or like when I realised how far I'd come in my recovery and found I didn't hate myself anymore.
It's very rare, prolly only happened like 10 or so times across my life, and I do consider myself a) to be an over-cryer* and b) to have been very lucky, as well as acknowledging I've also come from a life of relative privilege (white, financially stable 2-parent household).
*not in a shaming way, I've mostly accepted that my body will cry at a much lower threshhold of emotional intensity than anyone else I've met. Shrug, what can ya do!
OMG you got some chuckles outta me again tho, you wily lil pile of cheeky delight!!
Haha did the filly cart, or fough? I think I've sneeze-farted myself... snarted? Feezed sounds gross 🤔
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