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@utopia ditto!! So very well said

@BlueBay

Hi @utopia no anger towards you at all.

Actually I am glad you wrote what you did - to remind me of what I have right now, this moment.

I understand exactly what you are saying. I am going to focus this year on me, my daughter, the baby and helping her as much as i can. I don't give a stuff about what others thing or say anymore. These negative thoughts can just go down the drain.

I know @utopia you are so aware of what my life has been, what i am going through with my parents and I know you are angry. I will keep chatting here to get the support, love and friendships I have made.

You don't know how much your support means to me. xxxooo

Hey @utopia

No don't worry, please. All good 🙂

I am so excited it's ridiculous. I want to tell the whole world but i can't just yet, until my daughter has an ultrasound to see how many weeks she is. I got so excited last night, i was looking at prams, basinettes, i can start knitting again. OMG the list goes on and on.

I need to stop and just calm down and wait.

No one will take away my excitement not even my mum, not this time. She cab't take this away can she? This is my joy, my peace and calm, my new addition to my family. If she wants it to be like it is well that's her choice.

So much is happening right now, I can't think. Thank you for being here for me @utopia xxxooo

@Kurra

I have been thinking and do you know what? - I now don't really care what family/friends or the town think. My daughter is 25 yrs old in a stable relationship and are thinking of marriage. Having this baby will just delay things a bit. And if people want to go around and gossip or talk - let them. I couldn't care less.

I know i have brought up my 3 children the best way possible. They have have never beenn involved in drugs, alcohol or any other issues. And it's not as if she is a teenager.

I'm so happy for her because I know the amazing feeling I had when I held her in my arms and I want her to have this same feeling. I wnat to share my knowledge with her and share support and care for them all.

Hi @BlueBay

It's just so fabulous - and magical and beautiful - there is a new life growning and it's part of you as well as your daughter and her partner

There might be social stigma around but it's dealt with under completely new laws now - nobody is outside the law because their parents weren't married - and it's not your mother's business - so she can just but out -

It's none of their business

My daughter was pregnant and not planning to marry even though the baby was planned - they changed their minds - I was glad of that but it was none of my business

My gd is one of the two wonderful people in my life - my dd and my gd and I love both of them and they are so precious - don't think about your ratty mother - don't let her spoil this

Enjoy your - yes - I was going to say grandd-daughter - but I am right in choosing the sex of the baby 50% of the time

How wonderful this is

Dec

Thanks so much @Decadian

No we won't know the sex of the baby. Although my daughter and her boyfriend were saying that they want to find out, whether they tell us is another story. But i don't mind either way as long as the baby is healthy.

They will be living with us for a little while until they can buy their own home. Things are starting to work out for us Dec, i am still in shock.

My daughter wants to involve in almost everythhing. I am going with her next week for the aultrasound to find out how many weeks she is. I'm so excited. I will be by her side the whole time supportiing her and giving her advice if she wants to take it; and just being there for her.