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Carers Hints and tips to Success

Carers Hints and tips to Success

Hello everyone

Good morning , love to hear all carers hints and tips to success you have found in you journey

1) i have found encouragement to very inportant to us and to the ones we love

2) Being Postive is another one , what a difference in my love one over the years because of having a postive enviroment

there will be still ups and downs in our lives and the lives of our love ones

so what have you found that has helped you and your love ones over the years

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Top ten tips for carers to support their own recovery

Number I

  • Have ME time.

  • Set a time for yourself, e.g. watch TV, draw or read.
  • Do something you enjoy and love, happiness relieves stress.

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Top ten tips for carers

Number 2

  • Have social support.

  • Go out and see your friends or family and distract yourself.
  • Make time to see them every so often, socialising is great for your mental health.

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I would say my bottom line is a little similar to @perseverer

I have not always been able to provide a stress free environment and certainly have not had much social support, even tho I tried hard to create both. I mainly learned how alone I was and now am resigned to having social support as part of mh services. However the big improvement is that I can see the difference between mingling and getting social support .. thats a plus for me from this forum.

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  • Top ten tips for carers

    Number 3

  • Do physical activities.

  • Physical exercises can lower your stress levels, e.g. swim, run or walk in the sunlight.
  • It can help you become healthier and have a better sense of well-being.

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I agree @Appleblossom, @Anony18, @perseverer, @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member xx

a stress free environment which is hard as I can not be too orangized as Hubby can`t find anything -- I have to leave things where he puts them or he can`t find them

and not much social support,, we dont have any friends , being on here has been great for me xx

and I have been keeping in contact with the family myself

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Hi @Shaz51
I live about 85 km from nearest major centre, Wellways have a carer support person that comes and visits me in my own home or will meet me for coffee. They also have a support person who looks after Mr Darcy who will take him out for coffee. Not sure if that would be an option for you.
Darcy

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@Shaz51 - agreed sometimes creating a stress free environment is hard. I been finding people organising my life but putting things in my diary gets pressurising when these days I tend to go with the flow or feeling as sometimes I want my alone time or spend it with specific group of friends.

Physical activities has been a great importance for my MH and being able not to be overbearing to my partner who is the person who suffers from MI.

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  • Hints Number 4
  • Relax and rest.

  • Take some quiet time to yourself, e.g. read, meditate or do yoga.
  • Remove yourself from stress and get a good healthy amount of sleep.

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Hello @Former-Member, @Anony18 xx

Wellways have a carer support person -- Thank you @Former-Member, I will have a look xx

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  • Top ten tips for carers
  • Number 5

  • Get out of the house.

  • Do something exciting or different, e.g. Go for a walk, travel, see a movie or art gallery.
  • Get some sun and fresh air, Vitamin D from the sun can help you feel more energised and happier.
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