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Best Friends Club

Best Friends Club

A lot of us are looking for more friends and a place where we can feel safe and accepted. This is that place. Please feel free to introduce yourselves and tag more people here.

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They put a stent in for her heart aorta @tyme , she is a very strong person like my mum was

I have the chairs on the verandah and we have the old Queensland pushout windows

I have the other 2 seater downstairs, I want to get them covered too but someone wants to throw them out

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Thanks @Former-Member , going to visit her tomorrow xx

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@Shaz51 Beautiful colour on chairs…..cool !

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@PeppyPatti it's so good to hear that your son is getting his life together with what he wants to do and you have done so well supporting him.

I'm glad I've been able to help and you have helped me aswell.

That's awesome that you got your carer back. I'm sorry to hear what you went through, it's horrible that you didn't get the support you needed. But to be able to see a dangerous situation in someone else's life just shows how far you have come and the strength you have now.

Super proud of you ♥️

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Yeah @Shaz51

thank you. It makes you feel, being here online there are many people who just need a little bit of reassurance.

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Hey @PeppyPatti , I was going to ask, how is the other support worker going? The one who was helping without being paid? Has that been 'sorted'?

Hope you are okay.

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Yes. Thanks @tyme

Thankyou for asking. I though you may have forgotten because your work is full-on.

Sorry if I'm repeating anything.

My mother in law and husband were freaking out about her. Well I was feeling extremely uncomfortable seeing her and I cancelled her. She was still calling me and texting me !

Then I was told what she was saying about me to mother in law and husband

" how do you feel iv got more power over ........than you do ? "

I asked them if they wanted me to have a big break from her or sack her ---- they said sack. So I did.

Almost immediately I'm getting texts from her. My G...., it didn't STOP. So I assured her it's because Im just only wanting drawing lessons moving forward. This went on for 2-3 weeks.

I ended up telling my support co-ordinator what happened.

I cannot believe this. I'm vulnerable. Yet high functioning.

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Awwww @PeppyPatti ,

I'm so sorry you were caught up in all of this.

It sounds like she really needs a bit of support herself. I'm guessing this may have rattled you a fair bit.

I honestly hope you are okay, and I also hope she is okay. That.. 'obsession' is not very 'normal'?

Please don't blame yourself. And of course I haven't forgotten. I've been concerned about you but I didn't want to say anything in case something had happened. But when you spoke about your 'carer' being back after 5 weeks, I thought I'd ask.

Hugs.

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@PeppyPatti some men want a nurse with full purse 👛 Plenty of cash for them to splash 💦

Basically a substitute mother, who will give him everything he wants.

A blackhole that will drain the life out of you and your money 💴 💵 💰

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@Shaz51 I hope Auntie’s post op goes well.

You my friend have done an OUTSTANDING job recovering your mother’s cane lounge seats

HUGS

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