Best Friends Club

good morning all 💜

hope everyone's having a lovely day so far!

@Spirit_Healer aww so glad you enjoyed your lunch and botanic gardens date!!

@PeppyPatti @Bunniekins @TAB @Shaz51 @Former-Member @AvaTurtle @StuF @ENKELI @Oaktree @Glisten @MJG017 @Healandlove + everyone i've missed

@rav3n good morning rav3n. am doing exercises and having a cup of tea. hope you have a wonderful day. xxx

hiiii @Bunniekins i'm making myself some tea now too, what type of tea do you usually have?

hope you have a lovely day too 💜

@OaktreeI hope the cat has returned and the headache is gone this morning. I put a little cat-door in out laundry door so the cats can come and go as they please. The outside area there has been enclosed so they can get very far, but they can go out and look at the birds or sun themselves when they please. Or just run in and out like mad! As long as I don't have to get out of bed! 🙂

I did eventually get some sleep... in my bed as well... so that was nice.

@rav3n english breakfast which i love then the australian by twinings. i have organic coffee in the mornings to get the body going.

@PeppyPatti

It's so heartening to hear that you are feeling like you are in such a good place now and that some of those family relationships are starting to heal and rebuild... and in your partners case, love and learn. We all know that healing after abuse is difficult especially after enduring so much of it in our lives. Take a little moment to appreciate your own strength and resilience as well, and add that to your list. I think it well deserves to be to take it's place with the other things to celebrate.

@Bunniekins ooo nice i'm yet to try english breakfast, going to add that to my list! i usually drink chai but recently been enjoying peppermint tea 🍵

coffee kickstarts my day too, feel so much more alive after a cup hehe

Dear @MJG017

You help me.

Thankyou,

I was thinking about you and me last night and I thought that

Meeting someone who truly loves us has assisted us come from a stronger place.

Although this is not for everyone it has positively helped us.

Agree ?

@Jynx hey 👋 I didn't have much to do, so could take it easy, it can just be uncomfortable just being awake, I do t know how to describe it. It seems to come in waves, at the moment it's not too bad. I've been like this for almost a month now.

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@PeppyPatti wrote:

Dear MJG017

You help me.

Thankyou,

I was thinking about you and me last night and I thought that

Meeting someone who truly loves us has assisted us come from a stronger place.

Although this is not for everyone it has positively helped us.

Agree ?

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Thank you @PeppyPatti It's very good to know that you find my replies helpful. I know the support I get from everyone here helps me a lot as well.

I couldn't agree more with you! Having my partner around to get me through the past couple of years has been so crucial to me... I really don't know how I would have done it without her. Even the 11+ years I've been with her, she has helped me so much with my feelings of not just loneliness, but issues of self-confidence, self-esteem, and just general happiness in life. It makes such a difference and frees us up enough to work on our other issues. Which in turn, helps us with other relationships in our lives.

I know some people like to be alone or single, and others just don't have anybody. I was there for so long, I really do sympathise for how they feel and hope they can eventually find that same love and support I did. For people that prefer to be single, I think it takes a strong spirit of independence, that I just don't think that I have. But I do, generally, find them to be incredibly nice people. I don't know... they seem to share that love and support among the people around them more. That's just my observation anyway.