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Destiny

RockdogSenior Contributor14 June 2024, 8:42 pm AEST

Destiny

Hi @tyme ,

I would like to know more about destiny. I hadn’t really been in tune with my feelings, but when you mentioned about destiny things became came clear in my mind and my focus on the positive improved a lot. The one thing I wanted to ask was what if the destiny I am focussed on isn’t the same for her and she has other ideas. Were we really on the same page? I thought so, but then thought we weren’t. Is it ok to put all my heart into an outcome that I don’t know would be the same for her?

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RockdogSenior Contributor04 Oct 2024, 8:26 pm AEST

Re: Destiny

Hi @tyme ,

I spoke to Gayle today, she is passing me onto a journalist. It is really cool that your help has gotten me to the point of talking to a reporter about Sane. I feel so privileged and happy to be able to help an organisation that has helped me so much. I love you all. I still miss her though and have a major hole in my heart.

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tymeModerator04 Oct 2024, 8:45 pm AEST

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@Rockdog , the loss is there. It is real. It is okay to feel this. It is not 'wrong' to feel these emotions. However, we have to be careful that we don't let these emotions hold us back from living.

I'm saying this from experience where I let emotions cause my life to be at a standstill. I therefore lost 10 years of my life...

Whilst you are waiting, let life continue for you. As she said, if you keep looking back, you won't get anything except a sore neck (I'm sure her way of saying it was more gracious lol)

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RockdogSenior Contributor04 Oct 2024, 9:38 pm AEST

Re: Destiny

Hi @tyme ,

she is it, she is my everything. If I can’t have her I am done 😢

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tymeModerator04 Oct 2024, 9:44 pm AEST

Re: Destiny

Actually @Rockdog ,

She is NOT your everything. There is so much more to you than that. Give yourself the credit you deserve.

I hear you are hurting and your feel grief, yet in this, it is about YOU.

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RockdogSenior Contributor05 Oct 2024, 12:31 am AEST

Re: Destiny

Hi @tyme

No 🥲

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RockdogSenior Contributor05 Oct 2024, 12:38 am AEST

Re: Destiny

Hi @tyme ,

I can’t do it without her, I think tat was it. You know that was my dream and if doesn’t work out that is it 😢

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RockdogSenior Contributor05 Oct 2024, 12:50 am AEST

Re: Destiny

Hi @tyme .

i thought you were part of the dream, if not then I’m finished

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RockdogSenior Contributor05 Oct 2024, 2:13 am AEST

Re: Destiny

Hi @tyme ,

yeah I really don’t care anymore

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RockdogSenior Contributor05 Oct 2024, 3:34 am AEST

Re: Destiny

Hi @tyme ,

it has been a long time now, I think maybe I should just givexitcuo.

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RockdogSenior Contributor06 Oct 2024, 5:12 pm AEDT

Re: Destiny

Hi @tyme,

sorry for my messages the other night, I was having a bad night and was feeling pretty triggered. Sorry for sending bad messages

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