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Destiny

Hi @tyme ,

I would like to know more about destiny. I hadn’t really been in tune with my feelings, but when you mentioned about destiny things became came clear in my mind and my focus on the positive improved a lot. The one thing I wanted to ask was what if the destiny I am focussed on isn’t the same for her and she has other ideas. Were we really on the same page? I thought so, but then thought we weren’t. Is it ok to put all my heart into an outcome that I don’t know would be the same for her?

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i'm just a lil stressed with packing and getting organised for my sydney trip this week, but alright besides that!

oh sorry to hear @Rockdog do you want to talk about it? all good if you want to sit in that sad moment for a bit, sitting with you 💗

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Hey @tyme ,

I just told an old friend I was feeling pretty heartbroken. He said if it was meant to be nothing would have stopped it. I sort of agree, why would there be all this other stuff happen if it was meant to be.

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Hey @Rockdog .

What do you mean by all the 'other stuff'? Not sure I get what you mean.

Hope you are okay today.

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Hi @tyme ,

I was just meaning that it might be true that if she wanted things to work out she would have tried harder not to cut our connection cold and blow it all up. That is the part I meant other stuff. I made a mistake by texting that to someone who believes it wasn’t real. I just had a sad moment, and wasn’t thinking. I found a feather today lol. It was grey one and I just looked that up and it means calming and peace. There is still hope 😊

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Arrghhh @Rockdog ,

You haven't worked it out yet? Have you realised that whenever you feel low or you have a down moment, you tend to contact 'Job's Miserable Comforters'?

It reminds me of people who listen to sad/depressing music when they are upset. Is this so they feel comforted?

I don't know know.

Feather? Awesome! So that's three feathers now?

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Hi @tyme,

Actually yes you are right. I had a couple of drinks then reached out to the person who would give me no support.it was a stupid thing to do. I have had my bad moments happen while I listened to depressing music Yes I think 3 maybe 4. Normally they are white ones. Hope you are well and thanks for pointing that out. Something not to do.

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Yeah, @Rockdog , it tends to happen when you have a few drinks I reckon. If you note down the occurrence each time, you'll notice it too.

At least you have realised that it's not helpful.

Hope you've had a good day!

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@Rockdog ,

Did you get an email? It was sent yesterday. Hope it didn't go to junk mail.

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Hi @tyme ,

thank you, I hadn’t seen it. It was in spam. I just replied. Yeah it is weird how I make bad choices and the worse I feel the worse the decisions are.

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I wonder why all these emails are going into spam?? I hope you don't miss any important emails. @Rockdog

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