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Is there anybody out there (wanna lend me a hand)

Is there anybody out there (wanna lend me a hand)

A line from a song from my favourite artist. On struggle street atm. Having seriously bad flares with the cptsd and ongoing unusual "funny turns" that nobody seems interested in figuring them out. I suspect a drug may be a factor but am a john West reject from the public mh system. It's scary, severely restricting my functioning and I'm going backwards at 90 miles an hour. And I'm a waterfall. I was verbally abused by a male recently and it triggered me so badly. Everything has gone in the too hard basket. I'm beginning to hate Mondays. They've become an extension of weekends. I don't usually wallow but my body feels like it's run too many marathons and I can't busy myself out of my heads pace.

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Actually, before I started as a peer worker on SANE, I had my own MH struggles. People would run away from me. I used these very forums because they are anonymous and I felt safe in sharing. It really helped my MH. @Radarears

So much so, I'm still here and things couldn't be better. But it took a lot of time to work on healing.

I hope you find the forums a safe place to share. If there is anything that doesn't align with guidelines, moderators will email you and work with you to modify the post. This may be around posting too many details about something, etc.

Whatever it is, we hope you continue to connect with us.

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@tyme thanks yes the forums help. I've been severely punished for making very small mistakes and am technologically challenged so I get a bit scared of "falling foul of the system". I'm busy getting myself out of the habit of having to explain myself. It's ingrained thanks to the mh experts and the demanding diva former friend. I call it the Paulune Hanson. So do please be patient with me. I'm finding that the forums are helping me balance and regain a sense of perspective.

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Absolutely okay. We all go at our own pace. There's no right or wrong. It's important you feel comfortable.

What's good is that if you don't feel up to responding or you don't feel safe to respond, you can step away and leave the post. You are not commanded to respond if you don't feel up to it.

Some people may not read responses for weeks or months, and that's totally okay too!

Take your time hun @Radarears .

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@tyme thank you. I have a tendency with just about everything to go OTT and be prolific then lose interest and find something else however I come back to them again when I need to

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@tyme et al

Had a "pdoc" appointment this arvo and still trying to settle myself down and get some rest from the turmoil in my brain.

I'm trying out different things to see what if anything will assist with the processing and transition. Using electronic communications seems to be useful but some nights setting up a text dialogue with a friend isn't what I'm in the mood for. So I'll just share here. It was the first in person appointment in several weeks and phone in between. But we both agree that in person is very important. However she was very impressed with my trick I taught my cat. My video and editing skills are non existent but he's learned to beg for a treat biccie. He clasps my hand with both paws and sits up on his hind legs. He is a cat not a dog so he has to be in the mood but it's still fun.

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Awww @Radarears ,

That's awesome to share! That must be so rewarding to do!

My niece taught her dog to sit yesterday. The dog is only 7 weeks old.

Certainly, the power of pets that brings us those priceless joys.

Well done to you!

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@tyme it is. Very rewarding. 7 weeks is impressive. Your niece either has the knack or it's a kelpie😅🤣😂

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Lol.. @Radarears .. neither.. .she's used up all the dog treats and my sister was fuming! LOL

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😅🤣😂😅🤣😂

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How are you @Radarears ?

How's the cat training going?

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