Hi thanks for the welcome and thank you for the links
fun fact. I had social problems when I was younger. then a doctor told me Im a savant and could likely overcome most of the negative aspects of ASD if I set my mind to it.
A few years later I realized I lacked the ability to interpret body language or social Qs, then I used the internet to find out how to learn that stuff.
I came across the field of Nonneural Linguistic Programing(NLP). 20 years later, Now I can usually interpret body language better then most neurotypicals :D, I went from not knowing why somone wasn't my friend suddenly, to being able to accurately tell if somone is getting annoyed with me and how to change the convocation to avoid that, eg, recalling what they were talking about previously and restarting that conversational thread.
I like helping people and ran relationship help seminars teaching couples how to talk to each other and stuff until c-ptsd triggered about 5 years ago.