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D.I.D....

Wanting to know if there's anyone else in this group caring for someone with D.I.D.?

We've got a family member with a very "crowded" internal world of multiple personalities. This goes along with compulsive behaviours, phobias, social anxiety, derealisation and other difficulties. The person in question sees medical and psychological practitioners regularly; it's a disorder that apparently doesn't respond to medication, and they have previously reacted badly to medications that have been trialled; I'm seeing a psychologist regularly myself to deal with the pressure and get some feedback/backup. I have a supportive husband and family, but otherwise it's hard to know how to or who to talk with about what's going on. It's an uncommon enough disorder that you have to explain an awful lot about it before a conversation can even really start, and then you run into dangerous ground regarding the privacy of the person in question.

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And other news- Hubby's DSP application didn't get approved.

So today, he tried to do some woodworking, to make a cabinet that would help him keep his workspace in order. Things didn't go smoothly, and by lunchtime he was stressed out and almost in tears. I suggested we put off going to my sister's place to slash her grass until later in the day so he had time to settle. After lunch, we tried to find a missing power tool he needed for the cabinet. Ended up me looking, because he couldn't deal with it. Found it somewhere not altogether unreasonable, but not quite where we were expecting. (Yay!) Meanwhile he'd retreated to the bedroom to get some time out and settle down. Headed out to do the slashing, as we were finishing up Older Daughter rang us wanting a lift into hospital over a couple of things that didn't sound like emergencies. My sister's place is an hour away from the hospital... talked her into going to the doctor tomomorrow. Or so we thought. She rang again as we were driving home saying she'd SH'd and an ambulance was on its way... but then that was rescinded as per above post. 😞

So the news that he'd missed the DSP came on a day that kinda confirmed his need for it. As much as we're tired of the whole thing, looks like we'll need to go through the appeal process. ...meh...

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@Smc 🙏

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Update.... yesterday's Centrelink letter was all about changes to Hubby's Newstart requirements, in great detail.

Today there were another three letters, confirming that DSP has been granted.

So I'm thinking what's happened is that the earlier part of the application process triggered a reduction in Newstart requirements pending the outcome of the DSP assessment. Whew... that's a bit of pressure of Hubby (and me), but seriously, slightly better communication channels could save a lot of unnecessary stress.

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Sounds like a bumpy couple of days @Smc

Thinking of you especially at the moment.

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Good news about the DSP being approved.

Mail trail does not sound at all surprising...

Darling refuses to open centrelink mail now for this reason.

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@Determined, the fact that it's an "email-trail" is a bit ???. They can't even use the excuse that it got lost in the bottom of someone's out-tray.

Aarggh.... rant over. Life goes on with one less bit of stess.

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@Smc

DSP approval = 🙌

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Good news about the DSP being approved. @Smc

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Older Daughter had a double whammy SH/SI last night. Got a phonecall sometime between 3 and 4 am, didn't sleep for a bit after that and only fitfully the rest of the night. We picked her up this morning and got her safely home, and tried to make sure that the "items of choice" were removed or otherwise made unavailable to her.

We had been planning on a "look after ourselves" day out today. By the time we dropped her off at home it was lunchtime, and a bit late for what we'd intended, so we revised plans to a more nearby lunch stop. Feeling somewhat better by the time we got home, but sooo tired. Hope tonight's more restful, for all concerned.

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@Smc trust today is a better day for you...

Thinking of you and family.

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