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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@eth, @CheerBear. It impacts in so many ways. Money, boredom which leads to negative self esteem, not worthy thoughts. You know where that goes. I'm a high functioning depressive/BPD, so I can keep/hide my struggle s together more so than others, but too long alone is my problem and things unravel. I have a huge list of things to do this weekend
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ethSenior Contributor
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Oh @Sans911 I hope you are healing well. That sounds like really intense work when it happens. Is there anyone who can help you pay the rent? Can you tell your landlord you've been unwell and get an extension of time to pay?
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@eth, thanks for your response. I love my work, it's such a sense of accomplishment & gives me purpose. My foster sister already has paid a month for me. I've got the rent, just but my new house mates money is taking longer to clear than I thought, so I don't have enough of own money to pay while hers clears. Hopefully by Monday I'll sort it. We have rent inspection next week, so I'll sure I be told off at that time too
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ethSenior Contributor
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What a hassle @Sans911. I find rental inspections really stressful. Luckily I now live in a cabin in my brother's back yard so don't have to deal with tenancy managers any more. But I do pay rent and also feel I need to keep up appearances to a degree as he and his wife are so close. I was in public housing for 11 years up north prior to moving interstate 6 months ago for more support.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Just had a pancake batter vs too hot pan battle on my hands 😕
I can see how that cycle might start or be made more difficult to break out of without stable employment @Sans911. I hope things don't unravel too far/for too long for you. Housing and financial stress added would make it tough going sometimes too.
@eth - a cabin at the back of a family member's home sounds like a great place to live. Meant to say earlier that I love the colours in your avatar.
Kids needing attention and encouragement to get moving so I'm off to start the day. Hope your huge list has some good/nice things on it @Sans911 and you enjoy your day ahead @eth
I can see how that cycle might start or be made more difficult to break out of without stable employment @Sans911. I hope things don't unravel too far/for too long for you. Housing and financial stress added would make it tough going sometimes too.
@eth - a cabin at the back of a family member's home sounds like a great place to live. Meant to say earlier that I love the colours in your avatar.
Kids needing attention and encouragement to get moving so I'm off to start the day. Hope your huge list has some good/nice things on it @Sans911 and you enjoy your day ahead @eth
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ethSenior Contributor
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Have a happy day @CheerBear
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@CheerBear nice to talk to you. I feel I'm getting to know some others in this forum which is nice. Have a pleasant day with your family.
@eth yes, your cabin sounds great, but I hope it's warm enough for you. I'm jumping off forums for a bit, but I'll keep an eye on my emails.I have a lot to do distraction wise as weekends are a danger period for me. Nice chatting to you. Let's do it again some time
@eth yes, your cabin sounds great, but I hope it's warm enough for you. I'm jumping off forums for a bit, but I'll keep an eye on my emails.I have a lot to do distraction wise as weekends are a danger period for me. Nice chatting to you. Let's do it again some time
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ethSenior Contributor
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@Sans911 hope you get to tick off some of the things on your list over the weekend, and also find some good company.
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soulSenior Contributor
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Sorry to hear about the difficult situation you are in @Sans911. I hope things start to improve for you. Hi @Former-Member@CheerBear@Maggie too. Back from my walk - just over 10 kms. Wish I was in some lovely rainforest somewhere rather than in the Burbs but it was a pleasant enough morning anyway.
Got some grocery shopping to do. And some chores. Internet is broken so I will have to ration it this weekend until the tech comes out.
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ethSenior Contributor
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Wow @soul that's what I call a proper walk! Hope you have a good day.
