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hi @Shaz51, not a good day today, mums friend came around this morning, she walked into my room to say hi and i was still in bed, i was so humiliated, then my aunt came around, i just fell apart, and sturggling to cope.

i feel so numb, every day is running into the next and i don't know how to get out of this rutt

hugs my friend, thank you for thinking of me

Jacques

thank you @Faith-and-Hope, you are such a kind soul.

baby steps, yes, that is what i need to do now

thanks @Former-Member my friend xx hope you are ok tonight xx

Ohhh @Jacques, wow , sending you hugs from me my friend xx

So glad you were spared the cyclone @Shaz51

That is one thing we can do without

Dec

Hi @Jacques

I am sorry you had a bad day - not good - and to have your Mum's friend walk into your room while you were still in bed - not good manners

Still I am glad to see you - hope you can have the rest of the day in bed or in your pjs in peace - we are all entitled to peace

Keep in touch

Dec - Decadian

hi my beautiful friend,

gosh it has been to long, i am so glad you posted to me, i got quite te shock rto see you have mentioned me, yes, i was devistated, it happened again yesterday, people just walk into my room, i have no privacy at all, it is becomming very stressful for me

i hope things are going good for you and you are finding some peace my friend, your son would be so proud of you and the work you do here, you have made a difference and touched many lives here. i know he would be so proud of you.

hugs my friend

Jacques

Hello @Jacques

I am in a bad place at the moment too. I am hiding inside my house again trying to push myself to go to the library another safe place for me.

I feel so indignant that anyone would just go straight into your room without knocking first, even your family, let alone someone else and more than once.

Well if that was me I would have a sign attached to the outside of my door.

Could read visit by appointment only

Do not move past point A

Do not step any closer

Do not even think about it!

Respect my space as I do yours do not pass this point

I am sure that you can come up with something original and to the point if you like the idea.

my sons both had locks on their doors so that even when they weren't in them noone else could enter. Part of that was to stop the brother borrowing syndrome.

Perhaps others could give you some suggestions if you are up to it

you might just want to bury your head and forget about the whole thing

put a chair or something under the door handle

whatever you decide am thinking of you is very draining and everyone has a right to have their own space and have respect.