Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

thank you my @Emelia8

decide wher to put it xxxx

very true @Former-Member , i am decreasing the amount but it is what he will have in between and after dinner

Hey @Shaz51 just going through my notifications and went looking for your post on not sure what to do - it looks like a whole thread has been deleted. I'm very sorry to hear about those awful memories coming up for you. I know first-hand how hard that can be to deal with. Hope you are having a peaceful afternoon today and getting some you time. @Emelia8 and @BlueBay I hope you're ok now too. If any of you wants to chat or debrief come find me on the A long rave thread, or anywhere else. I'll be here for an hour or so. Take care and be kind to yourselves xoxo

Thanks @eth ... Im fine, and hope @Shaz51 @BlueBay are too.

The "not sure what to do" thread is still there. But Shaz's post has still not reappeared. The thread is in the Carers side, and currently still appears at the bottom of the latest posts list.

Emelia 💖

Thank you @Emelia8 , @eth

I got the email about why it was deleted, but I have not fixed it yet and reposted

@eth I was replying and sharing about what happened with being mentally and emotionally abused by my father

And then a surprised situation with my uncle which I could not believe it happened

It is in answering @Emelia8 , and @BlueBay experiences in not feeling good

@Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Maggie

Good morning @Shaz51 yes I saw your post in my notifications but then it didn't come up when I clicked on it so I knew it had been deleted. In this case I do think it could have been left up, not sure what guideline you breached. I really feel for what you've been through. Hoping having those memories come up has not left you distressed and re-living those moments. Whatever you can do to ground yourself in the present would be a good idea. Love you mate, xoxo

Hello @Malinka , @dizzyroundabout , @Raoh72 , @KarenSD , @xtine , @Toki , @Missmum87 , @Grasshopper3

sending you all tender hugs and letting you know you are not alone

@eth, @Emelia8 , @Former-Member , @Schitzo , @Anastasia

DAMMM if I do and DAMMed if I don't --- arrgggggg

@Shaz51 talk to me ... Please.

I have read this same post in 5 different threads now. Clearly you are distressed. Tell me whats wrong. @Former-Member

Emelia

hi @Shaz51

It sounds like you may be in some trouble this evening Shaz. Feeling damned can be a terrible burden for anyone to bear. I am concered that you might not be safe. Are you okay?

Please reach out for help off the forums if you need to get supported.

take care

Whitehawk

thank you @Former-Member , @Emelia8

I am ok @Former-Member

we are self employed and I have become my mum's carer

Mr shaz was worried about the lack of work which I said to relax and enjoy

but today we had 2 job opperiturities which mr shaz said to take

well tonight he is saying it is all my fault for saying yes to the new jobs

now I am worried as mr shaz has had lots of back pain and stomach upset tonight

and I am feeling I am to blame