Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Some are intra epidermal carcinoma @Former-Member , @eth , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Adge , @Owlunar

Hi @Shaz51 @Appleblossom @Former-Member @eth @Adge

It's great to see all you peeps here today - we are here to support you Shaz - you have your plate full right now

I am glad Mr Shaz only had to have his skin lessions iced off - yes - that can sting but better than having cuts - let's hope one go is enough - is he feeling okay about it?

I am sorry you have been having so much pain and your Mum is upset about your health - that's tough - she really does need you atm - and I get it - I really do - it's tough that you are battling with your own health and you need to be there and as well as possible to help your Mum through these times which won't last forever

Yes - I know you put yourself on the bottom but I prescribe, advocate, try and insist on self-care - this is your second Mum talking and I understand about your real Mum wanting to stay at home

All the best Little Family in Queensland - actually the weather in Melbourne is so horrible being in Queensland sounds wonderful

Sending hugs

Dec

Have an awesome Saturday my awesome friend

Hello @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Adge , @Owlunar

thank you my second mum @Owlunar

worked this morning and relaxing this afternoon --- aahhhhh

about mr shaz doing jobs by himself

that would be good @eth , but sorry to say he wants me with him all the time

not sure which MI this falls under

when he does something on his own somethings always happens he says , this has happened lots of times so now he thinks if i am there he is ok

SO much pain to deal with even while you are working.

@Shaz51

If Mr Shaz appreciates your company, maybe that could make it worth while. Its amazing how each relationship has its own shape and style.

Just keep taking care of YOU as you care for all the others.

Hello @Shaz51 👋

Hello @Former-Member

Reading a book and just about nodding off @Shaz51 , how are you?

watching shows we taped , mr shaz fell asleep on the couch , we have the aircon on

looking at the "better homes and garden" book while watching @Former-Member

how are you xx

@Shaz51

Nana nap = longer than expected.

no worries @Former-Member

i told @Adge i would really like a glass of wine

we have not had one for 4 nights soo far

anyway i put dinner on in the oven and then helped mr shaz mowing and cleaning upour yard

how are you going

hugs @Former-Member thinking of you lots xxx