Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Yes mmy darling @Maggie , think of you every day xxxx

Thank you for reminding me my darling , I will try on Saturday as Mr shaz is getting some sun cancers removed tomorrow afternoon xx

@Sally, @octavia this is the thread that I have been writting in xx

I am feeling very tired , mr shaz has something in his mind and that is it , I say suggestions that might be a better idea , but he won`t answer

and then we are on our way to what he has decided without telling me before hand

@Maggie, @Smc , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Owlunar , @Jacques , @Adge , @octavia , @Sally , @Sophie1

That does sound uncomfortable @Shaz51 And being left out of the decision-making doesn't seem fair.

I hope it's not the "silent treatment" - that really hurts.

An ex once gave me the silent treatment for 7 days straight - refused to talk or acknowledge my existence.

That is excruciatingly painful.

Adge

it's not the "silent treatment" @Adge , but it is what he decides without telling me what is happening

we worked for 4 hours this morning

and then we went to the city 60 kms away to pick up the pole chainsaw that they could not fix

had lunch and back home again

"silent treatment"is terrible , my dad used to do that with my mum until i got skiny and sick , and then mum and i left

hello my @eth

this is about my mr shaz xxx

Thanks for tagging me here @Shaz51 I'll have a read. If there's anything in particular you want to chat with me about feel free xx

i will my @eth thank you xxx

at the moment mr shaz is anxoious about the results of the sunspots results which will be on friday

soo see what happens @outlander , @Adge , @Maggie , @Smc , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Owlunar , @Bunniekins

Hopefully he will get the all clear @Shaz51 . How do you cope when his anxiety peaks? Is there anything you encourage him to do to deal with it - like breathing long and slow and deep for a while, etc?

I need to go offline for a while now but will be back in the morning if not tonight.