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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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sorry @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Smc , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @Faith-and-Hope , @Former-Member

we had decided to change our home insurance ( thought about it for months)

and now mr shaz think we might have made a mistake :

soo i have had a couple of glasses of wines , what a day !!!!!!

with replacing what we broke while mowing

and anniversary of my 3 step grand children becoming angels today --- awwwwwwww

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Aw @Shaz51

A couple of wines after such a day - not a problem - why not?

Do I have it right? - 3 of your step-grandchildren all became angels in the one day - that is so tragic - I am sorry to hear this

No wonder Mr Shaz gets anxious - I know he lost a lot of things over time but 3 grandchildren in one day - totally irreplacable -

No wonder he feels helpless at times - and it is your loss too - I am sorry Shaz

Sending hugs to both of you

Dec

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thank you my second mum @Owlunar , the babies were triples , it was sooo sad

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Aw @Shaz51

Triplets - they couldn't make it because they were too early I imagine - it must be hard for triplets to make it.

Losing them would be such a loss - I do understand - my experience is hardly the same but the feeling of devastation - yes - I do understand that

Sending love - a lot of it

Dec

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yes the third baby had died earlier @Owlunar

so it infected the other two as they were all in the same womb , so when they were born , they did not survive xxxxx

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Aw - I am so sorry @Shaz51

There are no words - nothing to say - I know that very well

Dec

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thanks mum @Owlunar

sending you hugs too

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Shaz

From Dec

@Shaz51

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@Shaz51

What a tragic loss. Three babies.

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@Shaz51 My thoughts are with you. 💜💕💜

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