Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

hello @BryanaCamp

the last few days have been crazy @Former-Member , @outlander , @Owlunar , @Determined , @Ali11 , @Former-Member

Hi @Shaz51

The last few days have been weird - for most of us - 3 public holidays in week is enough

and you have your Mum and her helpers and Mr Shaz as well -

This has to be intense

Dec

sure is my mum @Owlunar

wednesday afternoon we had off as I was unwell

thursday afternoon mr shaz and I fell asleep after lunch -- so no work for the afternoon , mr shaz was upset when he woke up

so we are going to work tomorrow -- saturday

I had a very restless night sleep last night with lots of pains

sooo tired now

then we are one step forward and 2 steps back as we need a new fuel tank for the rideon and now we need new belts for the rideon --- arrggggg

: @Former-Member , @Determined , @outlander , @Faith-and-Hope , @Former-Member

Oh dear @Shaz51 more pain and more mower repairs. Life rarely runs smooth.

That is a busy week @Shaz51! Hope you're feeling better, maybe the thursday nap was needed?

thrusday nap was needed @Ali11 but then mr shaz blamed me for being soo slack about not working

no not feeling good tonight but fingers crossed for some sleep @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Determined , @Former-Member

OOooooohhhhh @Shaz51

Mr Shaz went crook at you for not working - and he napped too - aw - bad boy!!

He does like to pick fights - at least that sounds as if he's picking a fight to me

That is so hard for you

Dec

ha ha yep @Owlunar , but I take no notice of him

he will not go and do the jobs himself -- he wants me to be with him -- because he says nothing goes wrong when I am with him

Oh dear @Shaz51

Nothing goes wrong when you are with him?????

How does that work?

Actually my ex-h would doing chores in a slap-happy sort of way - I understand - this was so I would't ask him again but I did -

I used to threaten him with spitting in his gravy if he didn't put the vegies in with the roast when the alarm went off on Saturday afternoon - when I took a nap. It was so long ago I can't remember if I ever did - perhaps he remembered that - maybe the vegies always went in with the roast.

It has to be hard if you are accused of falling back on the job when he won't do anything without you. It that what they call passive-aggression

Dec

@Shaz51 the good luck charm, or the voice of reason?