Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

wednesdays i clean mum`s house so , will be there for the nurse @Former-Member

The nurse rang me this morning to say that ( my mum told her she is cancelling the transition team -- don`t need them anymore ):smileysad:

Yikes @Shaz51 😬😬😬

I know @Former-Member

had a talk with the nurses and then the OT , ohhh boy

That is sounding a bit ominous @Shaz51

looks like mr shaz has alreday a frozen shoulder after this afternoons appt @Former-Member , @outlander , @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Determined , @Jacques , @Faith-and-Hope

Oh no, sorry to hear Mr Shaz's shoulder injury has regressed into a frozen shoulder. I was hoping early physio intervention may have prevented that from happening. As I have mentioned before, I had exactly the same several years ago. It was agonising, so he has my sympathy. I had an injection into the joint which worked a treat. Gave me enough movement to undertake extensive physio.

I see you have posted on uour other thread about your mum @Shaz51 so I will respond there about that.

So how are you anyway? I hope the ab's for the kidney infection have helped.

Sherry 😀

ohh my wonderful friend @Former-Member , hugging together xoxo

yes my ab`s are nearly finished already so am hoping it will be enough to get rid of the infection , fingers crossed xxx

Hello @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Owlunar , @Determined

no work today , toooooo wet

going to tackle my overloaded verandra table today , fingers crossed

Coffee first

slept in until 8-30 this morning

mum`s physio rang up ( am I coming down to mum`s --- ammmm )

@Shaz51, we went through a lot of this with my parents. Mum cancelling or refusing to engage outside help, specialists wanting our backup... in some ways being far away from their place meant that we couldn't be called in at short notice, but in other ways it was so hard being too far away to intervene, or even keep informed.

Is hard. Thinking of you. 😞

Hi @Shaz51

This is your second Mum feeling really concerned for you

I really feel badly that your Mum expects so much from you - I seriously feel that she has forgotten your own health is sus and having her just cancel her services shows that - and then the physio wants to know if you will be there

It seems to me as if you are the one everyone wants to answer the questions and do the chores and be Mrs Fixit - I really once again encourage to be firm with your mother that you can't do everything esp if she cancels the services she has

And I know these services can if iffy - but things get done even if they are not done to perfection

I really feel for you - and for Mr Shaz with frozen shoulders - that's painful - and to me it seems he might be feeling left out - I know this is really hard

Sending hugs to my little family - and Poor Little Kidney - he really does need to be cared for - I take it the antibiotics you are taking are to help Little Kidney along

It's an over-load Shaz - and I know - so hard to say know

Hi Mum - I need attention too - awwwwDec