Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Shaz51

Ever feel as if you are caught in the middle Shaz

Things sound really tough for you atm - I really wonder how you do it all - and you Mum has sacked her gardener - not up to the Razzle-Shazzle job eh?

I guess your Mum can't do the garden now - and Mr Shaz seems not to cooperate with his therapy either - it seems that understandably they want you to do it all

But - this is your Second Mum speaking - it's a hard ask to be everything for both of them - I hope you are giving yourself some time too - I get it - you love both of them but you need to love Shaz as well

Sending more hugs - I have been really tired lately - I will write about my returning to Melbourne adventure on my thread - after a fantasti restful holiday getting home was a tough issue so I haven't been on line again until this morning

Dec

hellloo my second mum @Owlunar

I will come over to read your thread

busy day today

both of us saw the doctors today too, mr shaz is veryyyyyyyy slowly recovering but the doctor is going to send him to a specialist , hoping no surgery in the future , he is worried already about time off when we can`t , trying to catch up because of the rain

Me -- I have an infection -- Yep kidney infection , on ab`s now too

went and saw mum this afternoon , taking her washing back all cleaned , done a few things before going again

having a week holiday in may in Darwin with D1 , hoping to still go

Hello @outlander , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Determined

@Shaz51

Another infection = 😔

Yep @Former-Member , @outlander

very big thunder storm here tonight --- wow

Do you or Mr Shaz photograph the lightening @Shaz51

Dear @Shaz51

So much to deal with .... you are a wonderful person and do so much for everyone. Anyone with you in their lives are fortunate indeed. Please remember that your life is precious, and you are vital to so many around you. So you need to take much better care of yourself. A kidney infection is not to be taken lightly, especially when you only have one badly functioning kidney in the first place. Try to force yourself to take a break and rest up a bit.

I hope the storm has passed through by now without any local damage.

Sherry 🤗🌸💕

I know my @Former-Member , just finding it sooo hard

tomorrow will be a veey busy day ,hopi nh sunday will be a resting day xxx

one step at a time my friend xx walking with you asyou are walking with me xxxxx