Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Sounds practical @Shaz51

thank you @Former-Member

yes the doctor said to keep an eye on it

yes talked about thelack of sleep but the doctor was not too worried about it, hopping it will settle down again next week when family and everything kind of gets back to normal @Former-Member

been busy with making decissions on every front , which i am not used to @Owlunar , @Determined , @Appleblossom

hello @outlander xxxxxx

It is hard making decisions, but extra difficult when so many health issues complicate things @Shaz51

Hello @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Owlunar , @Faith-and-Hope

soooooo hard my friends

tonight is family BBQ -- mr shaz does not wat to go -- BUT

tomoorow will be a long hard day , need strenght

mum is not coming to the wake tomorrow now , i know mr shaz does not want to go to the wake

soooooooo many decidisins

Would you feel comfortable going on your own @Shaz51 ?

I don`t mind going on my own @Former-Member

if mr shaz wants to comes , that is ok too xx

Mr Darcy often complains but will go out @Shaz51 I just keep an eye on when he has had too much.

Hearing you @Shaz51

With so many vulnerable with serious illness, its best to do what is right for each individual. You might actually gain more benefit from going alone, than worrying about your mother and Mr Shaz. It can be more authentic than them stressing or doing it out of obligation.

Take a few of us in your pocket for company of the wake gets hard. It really is about you and your uncle and sharing some of the grieving process with those present on the day. It can be surprising.

Focus on your grief process, remembering his life and why you care, not only other people.

Lots Hugz.

Thinking especially of you today @Shaz51 .