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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor10 Dec 2016, 11:56 am AEDT

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Unknown userMember18 Feb 2019, 9:13 pm AEDT

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@Shaz51 Good news re kidney. Did Mr Shaz ask the doc any questions?

Mum+infection = 😔

Early on in potentially new house negotiations for us, if successful we then need to sell our place (can take a while where we live).

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Unknown userMember21 Feb 2019, 1:44 pm AEDT

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@Shaz51

Thinking especially of you.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor21 Feb 2019, 6:31 pm AEDT

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Did Mr Shaz ask the doc any questions? --- no @Former-Member , he thought it was a waste of time

Mum+infection = 😔 on ab`s

Hello @Former-Member , @Janiee , @Jacques , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Adge , @Faith-and-Hope , @Smc , @Owlunar , @Determined

remember ¬what will happen next ¬ --- mum had a fall and broke her hip , lucky I was with her

she had surgery today and is now recovering in hospital

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Unknown userMember21 Feb 2019, 6:37 pm AEDT

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Oh @Shaz51 I wondered if something had happened. How are you feeling?

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Shaz51Senior Contributor21 Feb 2019, 6:42 pm AEDT

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very tired , drained emotionally and physically , exhausted

happy, relieved now

just left mum to come home 60 kms away and the nurse rang me , i talked to mum and the nurse sadi see you tomorrow -- but mr shaz said ¬what ¬!!!

what about work

now teary, headachy @Former-Member xx

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JacquesSenior Contributor21 Feb 2019, 6:57 pm AEDT

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hi @Shaz51 my beautiful friend,

sitting with you quietly, please take strength from all of us, i know times are tough, but they will get better @Shaz51 , it can't rain forever, it is a wonderful thing you are doing for your mum, and she is so so lucky to have you as her daughter, i have seen so many elderly who have no one.

please look after yourself too, take time out to pamper yourself and recharge your batteries, i think i remember a dear friend telling me 😉

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JanieeSenior Contributor21 Feb 2019, 6:57 pm AEDT