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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

love the picture @Former-Member

yes mr shaz has cancelled soo many times over the last 4 years , this might be another one

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Oh dear @Shaz51 ... I really hope thats not the case. Is there any chance of you calling them back?

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

hi @Shaz51 with all the storms going on up your way it could have caused some delays, please be patient guys the call will come. stay strong mr shaz, and @Shaz51

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

thanks @Jacques , @Former-Member

mr shaz is strong again

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@Shaz51

Back from trip and trying to catch up.

Shazzle Dazzle - has your belly ache settled?

Mr Shaz - still waiting on MH call/appt, how is his shoulder

Mama - did Mum get admitted with infection or is she home? Were you able to move bird bath and if so any success re: smaller birds?

Uncle - is uncle still in hospital?

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

hello @Former-Member , hope you had a good trip back , and it is good to see you here

Shazzle Dazzle - has your belly ache settled?,--- got lots of joint pains, feeling sick in the stomach at time , neck / headache , ( wondering if my ferritin iron is up again ) see the endocrinologist on next monday

Mr Shaz - still waiting on MH call/appt --- got a phone appt tomorrow to get the specialist appt

, how is his shoulder--- sore , no physio yet , see how that goes and see if he needs surgery

Mama - did Mum get admitted with infection or is she home?--- mum is home with Ab`s

Were you able to move bird bath and if so any success re: smaller birds?-- ah ha mum is trying to trick the big birds to go away and then feeds the little ones until the big ones come back again

Uncle - is uncle still in hospital?-- yes , not good , don`t think he will leave the hospital again

how about you

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

@Shaz51 sounds like bird bath giving Mum moments of joy.

Hope you get MH phone call and physio appt soon.

It is so very hard when the ones we love get old 🙏.

Mr Darcy organised so much for our trip away, not able to spend as much time with some family members as I would have liked. He is being troubled by his OCD thoughts again.

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Shaz51 , its funny how we all think we can cope with doing absolutely everything. Its a good call getting someone in to do your Mums garden. We should all take a lesson from this x

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

@Shaz51

Thinking especially of you in relation to your uncle.

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yes @Janiee , it was hard but good xx

@Former-Member, uncle is still going , he is amazing but not good

off to work now

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