Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

I hope everyone is doing well, I've bern thinking of you all and I've missed the chats @Shaz51 @Determined @Former-Member @Appleblossom

Nice to see you @Janiee

Trust all is well for you atm.

She is in the middle of a melt down at the moment. I just want her gone but she is making excuses to hang around but saying she wants to go. @Determined

Oh no @Janiee

Trust it has settled down/ settles down soon.

ohhhhh @Janiee, how is things now my friend , thinking of you and sending you hugs

@Janiee

It is hard with melt downs, I do think adult children need to set some limits on their behaviours to us, if they wish to benfit from our proximity ... not biting the hand that feeds ....

I am flat out atm ... sorry.

Take ALL

She left at 3, finally! Sorry for takong over your thing with all of my drama @Shaz51. Apparently she is walking away from me as i am not there for "emotional support". I'm not upset about the horrible things she said to me, heard them all before, have apologised for what i needed to apologise for and not going to keep on doing it. I'm just glad she has gone. Spent the last couple of hours on the phone to my girlfriend, who is a wonderful support. I know the walking away thing won't last as she comes up with half thought of ideas that she can't afford to get out of and will call. She says she can't keep trying to fix things with me, and as far as i can see she doesn't want to fix anything unless she gets 100% her way.

Anyway, all is quiet on the western front .....for now. Thank you for all your concern, i really appreciate it xx @Shaz51@Former-Member @Determined @Appleblossom

Sorry things are so bumpy for you @Janiee,

Kind of sux doesn't it when the ones who are the most supportive cop the most flack and blame 😕,

How did you get on today @Shaz51?

hello @Former-Member

how are you today and mr shaz`z twin mr @Former-Member

it is raining lots ups here

one cleaning job this morning for a 101 year old man

and then cleaned mum`s house

afternoon off ,

after the doctors

sugar has gone down from 7.6 to 6.5 , Liver is good , kidney is 21% ,other readings not too good

seeing endocrinologist next month , doctor wants more regular checkups

On more new tablets today , , fingers crossed they work

mum has cancelled her specialist appt tomorrow

We are on cyclone watch again

Mr shaz has his scan on friday