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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Busyish week here @Shaz51, Mr D wanted to visit a few people, so we have done that. Done a little work in the garden so have been a bit sneezy.

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Evening @Former-Member @Shaz51

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Are you officially on holiday now @Shaz51? Hi @Determined

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yes officially on holiday now @Former-Member, @Determined

Mr shaz is happy , he mowed our lawn this afternoon

Mum is back home again @Owlunar

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Yahoo @Shaz51

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Evening @Former-Member @Shaz51

Yay for the holidays @Shaz51 😁

Hot day here again today for us but got lawn mowed trimmed some shrubs around the yard and went for a 2hr bike ride with mum.

It has been almost a month since o uh r last ride so that was great.

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This is great stuff @Shaz51

Really good news that Mr Shaz is happy about the holidays and your Mum is home again and can watch her birds - that is so fantastic to hear

I got my bird bath today - at Bunnings - of course it is in a box and I have to put it together - I am not the world's handy-person in doing this kind of thing but I guess if I can't do it - well - my sil isn't called (Name)-Can for nothing - he fixes things for everyone

And I actually found a present for him in Bunnings - I told him when I have him a large bottle of his favourite grog for his birthday that I would try and have more imagination for Christmas and - yes! - right near the bird bath in the garden enhancing equipment and stuff there is was - so happy you mentioned your Mum's bird bath - that Christmas

cheer has spread a long way

That's such good news about your mum being home Shaz - fantastic

Dec

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Makes me shake my head and smile, Mr D threw out the first Christmas card we received AGAIN had to ask him to retain them up until boxing day. He refuses to let me know what he would like as a gift, tells me he doesn't care but then complains something untoward happens at Christmas...

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trimmed some shrubs around the yard-- yes mr shaz wants to do that too @Determined

today we went food shopping for us and mum, put mum`s stuff away

than took a present to the doctors and one for the hospital staff for all the care they did for mum

home now , and mr shaz has just fixed the rideon mower

🐦🦅🦉🐦🐦🐦☕️☕️💐🌸🌷🌹🌻🌺🌼 @Owlunar

He refuses to let me know what he would like as a gift, tells me he doesn't care but then complains something untoward happens at Christmas...--- same here @Former-Member

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Ride on mower fixed = 👍

Gifts delivered = 👍

Shopping done + put away = 👍

Kicking goals there @Shaz51 😀

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