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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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@Shaz51 *waves

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what a day @Former-Member

Mr shaz was on a high today , we did our 2 cleaning jobs and finished at 2pm and then went and mowed and then got home and had to take mum to hospital , I got home at 9.30 pm tonight , sooo tired

who cares about the cyclone -- not me , I am going to bed xx

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Oh @Shaz51, sending ever so gentle thoughts your way.

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good morning @Former-Member

Had a extra big day yesterday , we did our 2 cleaning jobs , finished a 2pm

then went to mow a lawn and then visited MIL and SIL who lives 30kms away to see if they needed anything done before the cyclone

got back home at 6pm

cooked dinner -- eggs on toast

6-30pm , take mum to hospital , they are keeping her in

last night there was no beds in our hospital so they would have to send mum to the next hospital 60kms away

9-30pm still at hospital -- yaaaa now they have a bed here for her

bed at 10-30pm

sunny this morning , so mowed 2 lawns before getting wet , raining heavy now

the cyclone is still going even overland , suppose to go over the top of qld and then come back to the coast -- have to see what happens , ok at the moment xx

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Blessings in adversity @Shaz51, so pleased local hospital have bed and you have been spared from major winds. Managing to get a couple of lawns done before rain set in this morning a bonus too.

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Thinking of you and family @Shaz51.

Trust mum only a short stay. Great that you dont have to travel too for this time.

Hi @Former-Member

Big storm here last night with 40mm of rain.

I was expecting a lot more in the gauge this morning when checked.

We are off to visit MIL at the hospital this morning. She is hoping to be home on Monday but blood sugar levels still not in check so have to wait and see.

Looking like rain setting in so unsure how much yard work will get done here.

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@Shaz51 Thinking of you - hope your mum is ok and that the cyclone doesn’t hurt anybody or damage your property... be safe and take care x

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thank you @Sophie1, @Determined, @Former-Member, lots of rain here , very heavy but hoping no other damages

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Quick check in @Shaz51

Thinking of you, Mr Shaz and mum.

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hello @Determined, mum is on drips to replace what is missing in her blood , thinki she will be be hospital for a few more days xx

how is your darling and your MIL xx

Mr shaz thinks we are way behind in our jobs , trying to tell him we are ok

we are taking 10 days holiday over christmas -- how about you xx

me --- I have to be ok or else @Former-Member

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