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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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I would hate to see Mr D return to where he was @Shaz51. I am afraid my view on psych meds given their appalling side effects is to advocate for Mr D and his desire to take to he absolute minimum necessary to maintain stability. I will read up and speak up, but I will also listen to and respect the treating team and encourage Mr D to adhere to treatment. I would not want him off meds either.

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@Shaz51 @Former-Member

Seems to be a common thread here lol

I am also perceived to be a killjoy.

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Selective adulting I call it.

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yes @Former-Member, @Determined

sometimes the side affects are still a worry

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I agree @Shaz51 @Former-Member

While side affects are terrible unmedicated = so much worse for our loved ones.

Finding the balance is the key.

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

very true @Determined, @Former-Member and each day is different

Rained here this morning

we jut mowed a lawn in betwen showers

home again now

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Had yard work planned here today @Shaz51 but got called into work.

Rain predicted tomorrow and across the weekend.

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yes same here @Determined, the ex cyclone has reformed back into a cyclone

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Rain forecast here the next couple of days too, is windy. Hope cyclone stays well clear @Shaz51 and no hail in your neck of the woods @Determined . Mr Darcy did another section of mowing today. I went out for coffee this afternoon with understanding friend. For a pair of grumpy old killjoys we certainly laughed a lot.

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@Former-Member, how did you go my friend this afternoon xoxo

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