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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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thank you @Former-Member, @Determined

tears are just flowing anytime , afew times already , Mr shaz just sits there

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Would he hold you if you asked him to @Shaz51

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yep @Former-Member, xx feeling better

and I rang the hospital tonight and Mum is feeling better xx

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@Shaz51

Hope you get some rest and enjoy lunch out on your anniversary - how many years now?

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@Shaz51

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@Shaz51

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I wish this pic was bigger - I do - maybe I can do soemthing about thatTwo for the price of oneHi @Shaz51

Gee things are tough for you right now - your mum so ill in hospital and Mr Shaz and I never forget about Poor Little Kidney - you have do much on your plate so much of the time

My reading is a little scattered - but your Mum needs you to hold her hand and she is in a lot of pain which I do hope they are treating - and your relatives - who don't know the whole story - and are loading a bunch of "shoulds" onto you right now.

And you do not need this - you know what's happening more than them - you are really into your mother's care and - I get it - you don't need extra stuff

But are they treating your Mum's pain as much as you think they could or should. Things are getting tough about pain management and I know a bit about it - I hope they are caring for you Mum's pain though - I really do

And Mr Shaz - he wants to take your out for your anniversary which is nice - but are you up for it - it seems a little confusing when you have so much to attend to that he doesn't really help much - if I have time I will read back on your thread to see what's happening

But the flowers - I wanted a bigger picture - I wanted to wish you a Happy Anniversary and congratulation's and best wishs for both of you

Dec

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thank you @Owlunar, @Former-Member, @Appleblossom

11 years @Former-Member

My step daughter text me to say happy anniversary and is sooo glad her dad met me -- awww

@Appleblossom, @Determined, @Faith-and-Hope

will write some more tomorrow my second mum @Owlunar

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Happy Anniversary @Shaz51 ..... ❤️

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Hi @Shaz51

It does sound as if you need some hugs - me too I think

Hugs are healingSometimes things can kist be too much - I get it - I am thinking of you

Sending my best thoughts

Dec

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