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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Sophia1Senior Contributor

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Hello @Shaz51

You must be feeling worn out...

What did you have done at the hairdressers?

Do you have short hair or long hair?

Sorry to hear that you have an unwell Uncle on top of all the other illness surrounding you..

enjoy your lunch

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Had a colour and a tidy up today @Sophia1, I have short hair , I used to have really curly hair when I was younger but it is all staight now

yes my uncle is like my second dad , they found out he has a staf infection in his pacemaker

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AdgeSenior Contributor

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Your poor Uncle @Shaz51

Hospital gave me MRSI Staff infection during my last surgery.

Staff is nasty - the surgery wound would not heal (for months).

Even tiny scratches on my skin got infected immediately, because the Staff was on my skin.

Adge

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soulSenior Contributor

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I think hospitals try to get patients out as soon as possible because they are rife with germs. I recall my Dad getting severe diarrhoea after a hospital stay which manifested itself just after he returned home. Wasn’t pretty

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor

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❤️ @Shaz51 ..... thinking of you.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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thank you @Faith-and-Hope, @soul, @Adge, @Sophia1, @Former-Member

well the CT Scans say I have curvature of the lower spine - (scolisis) which is caused by my Rubella Sydrome

have a fused kidney which i knew and working at 24%

I have a blocked Bowel -- so have to unblock it

doctor said I have to take care of my kidney

@Determined, @outlander, @Former-Member, @Appleblossom, @PeppiPatty, : @Owlunar, @Sophia1, @Former-Member

mr shaz is having a lot ending thoughts , saw doctor today , but did not ask questions

trying to get him to have his meds reviewed and to get som help about his thoughts

The doctor asked him today if he is taking one in the morning and the other 2 meds at night

no mr shaz takes them all at night time

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Wow @Shaz51 that was alot to find out. You poor bugger.
Hugs and hugs

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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thanks for the hugs @outlander

my uncle ( my second dad ) is in surgery right now to remove his pace maker which has the staf infection in

@MDT, this is the thread I write all my stuff in xx

@Faith-and-Hope, @soul, @Adge, @Sophia1 , @Former-Member, @Determined, @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @Owlunar

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh dear @Shaz51 your families in the war a the moment now arent they! i wish you all a speedy recovery

hi @PeppiPatty

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DeterminedSenior Contributor

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Hugs @Shaz51, that is a lot to process.

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