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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Re: tomorrow goes well @Shaz-Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Sitting with you @Shaz51 .... that’s hard.

Hugs ❣️

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@Shaz51 ❤

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Thinking of you @Shaz51

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@Shaz51

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@Shaz51

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@Shaz51
I said a prayer for you, & your, mum.
Bella xo!

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How are things this morning @Shaz51?

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Hi @Former-Member

How are you? It's lovely to see your message to @Shaz51 this morning.......very caring. It's nice to see other people really acknowledging morning stresses and sending a touch of care to others.

This morning I'm going to church. I was very excited last night because I understood the reading of my new assignment and took some good notes. I am doing Sociology Foundations on Open University, I never thought that I'de be clever enough to do this but I'm doing it, I'm doing it.

Cool for someone who was hit by a car and in a deep coma for 6 weeks when 15 years old hey. Then care for two sons, one with serious malignant brain stuff and he recovered ( he's 24 years old now ) and one with bipolar type mental health issues. Now a husband with diagnosed Chronic Paranoid Schizophrenia. I've never spoken like this before.......

Who would have guessed?

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Re: tomorrow goes well @Shaz-Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Thinking of you and mum @Shaz51
Trust Mr Shaz coping ok also.

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Hi @PeppiPatty, @Shaz51, @Former-Member, @Determined, and everyone. Nice to see you pop up in notifications ❤

PEPPIPATTY, glad youre being so open today, and i wish more ppl would nutshell their story now and then as well as you just did. My heart goes out to you though, go e through so much yet still pressing forward. Its an honour to know youre here, encouraging each other. And youre such a wonde ful carer of your family, in spite of your own challenges ❤ Sociology One was a great subject in my first year Social Work Studies (dropped out when left my-husband). i distinctly remember the realisation of all the things i wanted gov to know to help improve communities, well... ... yep... ... they already know it all. I felt so disillusioned that they actually known for years and can't 'fix'it. It was like someone stole my thunder / lost my voice... How immature / green was i? So keep studying if you can - theres so much to learn out there. I made it to church today too for a change (Rev 14😱}. Just got back & found you guys

But wont hang around long as gotta go serve lunch soon ☺


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