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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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I am tired , trying to be postive @dands26, but I don`t think it is working tonight xx

I think my mr shaz will be taking his full meds tonight

Hope you are ok @dands26 , we are here for you xx

How was your day @Former-Memberand Mr @Former-Member

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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S3 has talked to his dad Mr shaz tonight @Former-Member and mr shaz is trying to get him to move up here with us

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dands26Senior Contributor

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The feeling is mutual on the feeling positive tonight!

Thank you so much for your support x

I am extremely grateful!

He told me earlier today that he is wishing everything away, he wants to do nothing and wants everything to go away.

He then become unresponsive!

He is okay i had his mum check.

However he doesn't quite understand the worry he makes me feel when he becomes unresponsive.
& being only 4 weeks since he decided to end the relationship and be friends it makes it even harder to know what to do.
I cant just turn up unannounced.

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Unknown userMember

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@Shaz51
Hard to be positive all the time.

Hoping Mr D might have turned the corner, been quite a bit better the last couple of days. Will check to see if Mr D needs follow up GP appt tomorrow following repeat bloods (suspect he will).

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Unknown userMember

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Does S3 have a good job @Shaz51?

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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will be thinking of you and Mr @Former-Member tomorrow xx

and @dands26 , My mr shaz wants to retire today

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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No @Former-Member, no job at all , he has been looking after his partners children while she works

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dands26Senior Contributor

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Lets hope @Shaz51 that tomorrow is a better day all round!

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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That is it @dands26, tomorrow is a new day

Mr shaz has gone to bed so I am off for a shower and then bed xoxo @Former-Member

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Unknown userMember

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I'm retiring on the 12th, the 12th of never that is @Shaz51, is it a good time to suggest to Mr Shaz he can retire if he qualifies for DSP ...

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