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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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@Shaz51 It is such a contrast for me, there is so much before and after. Mr Darcy was never one to sit on the couch doing nothing. He was always so motivated and strong, I would feel that strength when he put his arms around me.

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@aShaz51
Understand the no help bit, at one stage I had to do everything. Now Mr Darcy gets most upset though if I do particular jobs, even though at times it would be easier to do them myself.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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unusual day here tooo @Former-Member with mr shaz

thinking of you my friend xoxo

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You take care too Shazzle Dazzle
I reckon I might have to visit the land of nod @Shaz 51 can hear Mr Darcy snoring...

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Hi @Shaz51
Checking in on YOU
Darcy

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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hello @Former-Member, how are you and mr @Former-Member today

Hello @Determined, @soul xx

mr shaz is anxious tonight after having a very slack day today

and me --- The doctor wanted to see me today doing review of all my conditions , no looking good

i have soo many papers of information and things I have to do , Just have to do them one is to lose weight , cut back on protein, salt, sugar , postussuim and more

mr shaz worries if we don`t have enough work and worries when we have too much , he wants me to advertise again for more work but when we get more , he can`t cope and then we have to cut back again and say no

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Are you feeling a bit overwhelmed or are you ok (or a combination of the two) @Shaz51

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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a little bit of both @Former-Member

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Returning one of those tender hugs @Shaz51

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@Shaz51

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