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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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we are going ok today @Former-Member, we did 2 hours cleaning and then a 4 hours cleaning jobs , home at 2-30pm

Mr shaz back is sore and i am aching and tired , went to the doctor saying i think i have a bladder infection , he has not rang me back yet to tell me the results , maybe on monday

doing a job tomorow as we are going to a furnal on monday , mr shaz thinks he should go so i think we will have to have the day off

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@Shaz51 ... These bladder infections are a constant worry for you. I hope it can get sorted soon.

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Just a quick fly by to catch up and say hi, little people are waiting outside to ridd their bikes and a load of washing to hang out before going to visit my darling.

@Former-Member How is mr Darcy doing now, settling back into routine i hope. And you back into work routine.

@soul how is the car hunting going? Did you say you were going away to see your nice brother? Is that planned yet?

@Faith-and-Hope have not had a chance to properly read and absorb your updates but trust things are improving for you and your family.

@Shaz51 is mr shaz over his grumps? I hope so, are you getting over your cold or whatever it was? Trust all your appointments have gone well for you.

@outlander, trust things are steady for you. Have you spoken to your mum yet? Hang in there,

Anyone i missed hi

Trust everyone has a great weekend, if I'm a bit random in my visits here it's because I'm crazy busy not that I'm hiding or anything. Appreciate my sane friends and look forward to visiting as often as I can 😊

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Hey @Determined
Mr Darcy is setting, still a bit anxious but we are hoping this might ease if some physical pain he has been experiencing is sorted. I found it hard to concentrate on my work as my concerns around the treatment Mr Darcy received as an inpatient is at a critical discussion stage.
Darcy

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hi @Determined

im slowly getting a relationship with my mtoher but shes such a user its hard to trust her. shes done many things and ive realsied that now how much they have put the pressure on me and to also use the crap out of me. but im ok, hanging by only a thread at the moment- might need omeone to chuck a few more strands down for me

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@Former-Member

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hello @Determined, @outlander, @Former-Member, @soul, @Faith-and-Hope

@Determined, with Mr Shaz it goes around it cycles , sometimes it still surprises mw when it happens

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yes our cats and dogs are amazing @Determined, @soul, @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope, @outlander, @Anony18, @Jo, @JoJo99, @Rose96, @Owlunar

I remember having elipsy for 3 years and very bad depression from the meds for 4 years , my dog was amazing and my cat slept with me every night, when I would have an attack i would need oxygen , one night i had a death experience .

In this time of life I felt i was not here at all , I could always see me laying there sleeping , like i was watching myself

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@Shaz51
You have certainly been through rough times.

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yes when I write them down or remember them i think WOW , and then I keep on keeping on @Former-Member

how are you today

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