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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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So sorry to hear Mr Shaz is giving you a hard time @Shaz51 ...... I hope you really enjoy that soak .... ❣️

Hugs ..... 💜💕

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Quick check in @Shaz51 has Mr Shaz settled
How did interview go @soul
@Determined Mr Darcy doesn't mind me being at work, he was busy yesterday sorting out the tire but could not get our fire going today

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Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

@Faith-and-Hope hope things relatively calm
@Cath22 hope Mr & mini Cath ok

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They are at the moment @Former-Member, thanks ....

WH is a nicer person this week .... not coming across as angry at the moment, more resigned. S2 hasn't been following the path WH is trying to set, and with all his controlling tools "confiscated", WH is accepting the bench, I think, waiting on the next family counselling meeting (Thurs) to ask what the hell he's supposed to do when S2 is not holding to boundaries, but he is not allowed to control him ....

My take on it is that when S2 is feeling less like a hostage, he will sort himself out .... can't really say that in those terms tho ... 😏

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Will be thinking of you on Thurs @Faith-and-Hope

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Thank you @Former-Member ..... 💕

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Hi @Former-Member - I pulled out of the interview. I'm sharing a car with my daughter and really need to buy one of my own. The deal I thought I would take fell through because it had previously been in an accident and had been written off. Not quite ready to enter the workforce and not sure that an outside job is what I want.

So just hanging ten for now.

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Happy for you that things are a bit calmer at your place @Faith-and-Hope

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Hello everyone , thank you for the callout @Anony18. @Faith-and-Hope, @soul, @Former-Member, @Determined, @outlander, @Former-Member,, @Former-Member, @Jo, @Owlunar and all my friends

We are ok, , we mad it through the day , i think is was sunday wasn`t it

well on monday mr shaz went to mow the lawn for the neighbour an ran over an electrical lead which was it the grass with the push mower , but hoo rayyy the power was not on

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lucky the power wasnt on @Shaz51

im glad your going ok

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