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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor

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That would be my suggestion too @Former-Member

@Shaz51

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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have saved the website @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member xx

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Unknown userMember

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Hey Shazzle Dazzle, sounds like you have been very busy. Can I please enquire (gently and with love) if you have been able to sneak in just a skerrick of self care @Shaz51
Darcy

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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had the afternoon off after lunch @Former-Member xx

spending time on here and then cook zuccini and carrot quince for dinner

Hubby was panicing all afternoon ,

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Unknown userMember

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Hope some R & R achieved @Shaz51
Don't know about Mr Darcy, comments about improvement might have been premature.
Darcy

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Unknown userMember

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Good morning my very dear up and downers.
Reminded this week just how valuable our input into the lives of the ones we love is.

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor

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Morning @Former-Member .... 😊💕 .... and anyone else who's around ....

S2's apt today with WH at the pdoc ... need to not get my hopes up too high. Even if this does result in a diagnosis for WH somehow, I doubt it will happen quickly, and S2 is in denial that his dad's behaviour is affecting him ... he has internalised his feelings into self-blame, and all I can do is hope that the pdoc can work out what is going on behind the scenes.

This is all new territory for me. I can't ascertain whether this is false hope, while S2 will now shield his dad's behaviour from view too, not wanting to be part of "his story" .....

Such a mess ..... so complicated ....

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Unknown userMember

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@Faith-and-Hope ...

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DeterminedSenior Contributor

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Good morning @Former-Member, Hows things?
You have been in my thoughts, trust all is well as can be.

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