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tymeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Okay, is this involving me, with your boundaries @Sunnyside226
Either this weekend or next.
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Birdofparadise8 no this isn't anything to do with you because you haven't done anything or hurt me
I'll write it here
@tyme @Jynx @RiverSeal @Paperdaisy @moderator
Just letting you all know I have made the decision to put nothing up about my brothers kids I won't be answering any questions about the kids for example if someone asked how the kids are doing I will not be answering there's too much of dramas on here about them I am asking nicely please don't ask about them or anything about them this is my big decision this is my boundaries I'm not trying to be mean or rude about it I just can't handle anything about them anymore for the people I have tagged if you would like to know how the kids are going you're welcome to email me but I will not be saying anything on the forums anymore about them
yes I am still going to email Tyme tomorrow I will do that
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Birdofparadise8 I will have a look at kids helpline soon is there anything I need to know before I call them? Would I have to say where I live or anything?
Sorry that made no sense
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
I'm sorry you feel hurt by others on here @Sunnyside226
I'm sure it's not their intention.
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JynxModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 @Birdofparadise8 just popping in to say hi 😊
@Sunnyside226 I think that is a very fair boundary to put into place! Thank you for being open and honest about your needs. If anyone crosses that boundary and you feel uncomfortable about responding to them yourself, feel free to email us and we can help communicate your needs along the way.
Are you hypermobile @Birdofparadise8? Is that why your hips are super flexible?
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Birdofparadise8 yes I've heard that word before but I am not talking about it anymore I will talk to Tyme tomorrow about it
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
I could be, she said. I am on my knees as well, but not in my arms, wrists or hands. @Jynx
But now they are super tight and sore.
How are you?
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Okay, well I hope the issues get resolved for you @Sunnyside226
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Hello @Jynx popping in to say hey? You hiding in the air conditioning?
@Birdofparadise8 I hope so because I am just tried of everything I'm in my dark thoughts about everything
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Are you safe @Sunnyside226
I would suggest trying KHL. You could give a webchat ago, and if you are comfortable talking to them, you can always ask them to call you.
I don't know if I would be here without the support I've received from them.
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