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Support for Flowerlove22

Support for Flowerlove22

Hey @Sunnyside226 ,

I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.

I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.

Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.

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@Sunnyside226 I look forward to it, I have some stitch pics to share aswell 😊

Haha yes I remember her comment 😂.

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This emoji is wild 🤣 the one she did

I think you and aunty glow will laugh so hard 🤣 😂

@MissGremlin not me hoping you have forgotten the pants thing 😂

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@Sunnyside226 hehe I'm always up for a laugh 😂.

Oh I'll never forget the pants thing, are they all still without rips in them? 😂😂

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I know you like having a good laugh 😂

@MissGremlin well the pants I'll save that for later lol

 i don't remember if any of us have shared this so sorry if I have.

It was a good night last night

Tonight we went to a show ( ma'am loved it more )

Came back felt really off I don't know if it's because lots is happening or if I feel burnt out.

Thanks for that picture you sent earlier about crying. I don't like crying I'm not a person to say I'm crying I do ashamed. I did smash some things

I felt alone and like nobody cared.

@RiverSeal hi haven't seen you in a while. Music helps you too? That's good do you have any favourite songs that helps you? Have you ever played an instrument?

What helps me I guess it depends.

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@Sunnyside226 thought I'd reply while I'm waiting for the pic to be approved.

I'm glad that last night was a good night.

Going to the show sounds like it was a good distraction but then once back at home things felt off. There's been alot going on for you and it may be a combination of being burnt and just too much happening.

I hear you, I'm not one to cry either as for me it feels scary and out of control. But it's ok to cry and there's nothing to be ashamed of for doing so. We are all human, we all feel pain, we all struggle sometimes and that's ok, it's ok to let things out.

You're never alone here and you certainly are cared about, I care about you alot and I'm always happy to chat to you ❤️

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@Sunnyside226 ooohhh i need the interior of that car 😂

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Hey matey aunty glow

How did we meet. Well we became mates when we did a class together at army cadets I had a crush on someone else at the time then I didn't we started talking more we had an fallen out I didn't give my phone number or anything out I felt stupid for not doing so. After not seeing them for a while we run into each other at a place every week we did something to get to know each other more. I started to get the feelings being intimate they said that they had feelings of being intimate for a while so we just started dating ever since that were being together

I try to block them it's difficult I'm trying with "boundaries" what's your boundaries when someone you don't like/ had a fight with? If you want to answer.

No I haven't had a therapy session for a while since my last person had left I liked her she didn't rush me it takes a while for me to open up to a lady/woman

Maybe we could but I think me doing what I do can sometimes help a safety plan is things that I already do. Like run etc make sense?

Yes it is nice not having to hide feeling just be open how your feel. With the right mates or partner.

Haha sometimes I have to put the bigger pants on lol. From what I seen they look nice good person ma'am liked them. I just worried she will get hurt again I don't want to see her in a relationship like that again.

Do I approve I am not saying yes or no I'm keeping very close eyes on them you never know.

Ooo how did your party go? Any Boogie 💃🏽 or singing? Hope your friend/s was nice today.

Yeh that's good. Do you like swimming? Do you prefer pools rivers or oceans ?

I didn't take you as a camping girl that is wonderful!

Your the frist person I've seen who only has Instagram I never thought I would see that 😂

I get the results tomorrow for the ocd not looking forward to it.

That's wonderful your new home is going well. @AuntGlow I hope you have a lovely day. If I don't talk to you before Xmas I'll talk next year to you if you will be working here still take my lovely mate 💛💛🫂💅🏽

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Haha sorry I know it was late when I did the picture, hopefully I didn't wake the mod up.

Yeh it was a good night.

I guess yeh maybe I need to rest I don't want to. Too much at once can be a lot for one person.

I'm sorry it feels scary for you when you cry that sounds difficult. I know I shouldn't be ashamed it feels wrong to cry when I should be strong.

Thanks for caring @MissGremlin sometimes the worse comes out when things are going bad can make us feel hated by ourselves or people around us, hope your day is well,

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@Sunnyside226 hehe we probably help to keep them awake sometimes ☺️.

I get that it's hard to allow ourselves to rest sometimes but even just a small rest can be enough to reset a bit.

But crying doesn't mean you are weak, you are still strong just overwhelmed by alot of things.

Awww I'm always here for you ❤️. My day isn't too bad, Casper was being noisy with his squeaky ball before now he's laying at my feet sleeping.

How's your day going?

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Haha I bet we do sending pics out random hours of the morning

Do they get a notification or something that a picture is being send ?

I had a little sleep this morning. Then I was up cleaning putting things together 100 times lol

Thankyou

Hahaha 😂 I can imagine that squeaky Ball might off annoyed you lol

I will send send all the pics later there's about 5/6/7 haha 😂 my phone is full of stitch the shit my sister sends me there's some I think you will be laughing at

My day went off bad me and her had a fight because she used the last bit of milk so I couldn't have my coffee so I stormed off got some lol

I went to the boats/jet ski place now I'm in air conditioning it's very hot @MissGremlin

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