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tymeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Over people life today
😡 💔 Fucken over it
Not okay not fine numb
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@Sunnyside226 I'm here for you. If you want to chat about anything I'm here to listen, if not I'm sitting with you.
I know the feeling of not being ok cos today that's me aswell. If you like we can just sit in this moment together.
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Ru-beeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 I'm sorry to hear you're not okay today
I'm here to listen too if you need to talk about it
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
I wish it was the old days no phones
No this no that
I don't like phone calls it reminds me of dad i didn't get to him in time that's my fault I can't people expect me to drop everything I can't I can't
I could of saved him I could of helped him he cried for helped from me I failed him. Mum died because of other reasons I don't want to say. I need her today to help me say it's going to be ok all I want is one more hug to say I love you I'll never get that again
I build relationships on here I failed that I can't keep building relationships if I can't keep the ones I build. God is with me but I'm alone feel isolated
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Sure @Ru-bee @MissGremlin
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Ru-beeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 it sounds as though you're relive some really hard memories right now. I'm sitting with you 💜
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Hey @Ru-bee
How's your pets? Do you want coffee/cake?
Sorry I need to be with mum
I don't understand why you decided to talk to me ( that's In a nice way)
I'm panicking I'm sorry if I did anything to you to burst the relationship.
Trying to breathe chest feels heavy
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rav3nSenior Contributor
hey there @Sunnyside226 appreciate the pillow fight invite 💙 if the forums isn't too busy, i'll defs pop in!
i haven't jumped out of bed yet.. i ALMOST did though 😅 and nope, i got up to 5 alarms yesterday... no where near your record, might be hard for me to beat 😆
seeing your post actually reminded me to check on my finch baby soon hehe. gotta tick off some tasks.
i just read your recent post too, sounds like it's a really hard day for you. take some breaths with me, inhale for 4 counts: 1.... 2.... 3.... 4.... and now exhale for 4 counts: 1...2...3....4... and now hold your breath for 5 counts: 1... 2... 3.... 4... 5... and repeat by inhaling, exhaling and holding a few times.
i'm sorry those feelings are really overwhelming today, just know that the forums community is sitting with you. 💙
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@MissGremlin
Jumping out of bed at 5.45 was like a kid in a candy shop 😂😂
I went for a run and gym
Shower back to bed
😂😂😂 Slid out of bed unwillingly that's funny as
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Hey mate @rav3n
I'm trying to breathe I'm also trying the one I did with the member A_Z one
Hopefully you can join I have a stitch cake
One day you will jump ot of bed it may be like that picture I posted of when you need to pee 😂😂😂
How's Honey? Did the bird send notifications ? Sorry for a dumb question
Take care bye mate
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