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tymeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
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rav3nSenior Contributor
hey @Sunnyside226 @MissGremlin 💙
i think the colours convo was with me! the one where 💙 means you're okay and then 🖤 means you're feeling unsafe? correct me if i'm wrong!
sending you both some positive energy. sounds like today's been quite heavy, hoping that things get lighter throughout the night 💖
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@MissGremlin unfortunately I got her again so I give up on that I'm going to sit here on the floor for 5 minutes
@rav3n yeah I think it was you. I couldn't remember sorry
Here's the colours that I said I would post for you both
❤️- frighten angry mad serious needing space
💛- worried annoyed anxious overwhelmed
💚- happy calm comfortable safe having fun joking around
Light blue _ lonely alone sad down
🖤- feeling unsafe bad day not okay (missing mum dad)
💙- I'm comfortable with the person supportive, feeling safe with them
Hope this is okay to share it's something maybe you guys would understand me more
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@Sunnyside226 oh that's frustrating that you got her again. Sitting on the floor for 5 minutes actually sounds very appealing.
I love that colour system that you have, thankyou for sharing it. If you like I'm happy for you to use it when you chat to me, its so helpful to know where you are at and what you feel you need at the time.
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rav3nSenior Contributor
@Sunnyside226 thanks for sharing that again, that's a cool colour system to have in identifying those emotions and needs.
i agree with @MissGremlin sitting on the floor for 5 min sounds nice... sometimes the coldness of the tiles helps distract me for a bit.
also loving the coffee memes on the other page... and one about needing to pee but wanting to sleep THATS ME EVERY NIGHT 😂
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@rav3n thanks mate hope it was ok I'm worried now
😂😂😂 you needing to pee but comfortable in bed love it
How are you?
@MissGremlin I'll try it out from tomorrow if your ok with it? It sucks I got her again it's life we move on ive given up for the night
@rav3n @MissGremlin maybe aunty glow
Have you guys tried the Oreos coke?
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Also @rav3n I tried the app thingy bird one. I am up to the question parts.
What colour is your bird?
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@Sunnyside226 happy for you to try it out 😊.
It's definitely frustrating when you get someone that you aren't comfortable with. It happens when I connect via chat aswell, there's a couple I just can't talk to.
We still up for that pillow fight tonight?
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rav3nSenior Contributor
you're all good! @Sunnyside226 if there's any issues, we'll let you know so don't stress.
i've been good mate, had my cappuccino and the heater in my house finally got fixed today! so i don't have to feel like i'm living in antarctica anymore 😋 how's things been for you?
oo yay, that's exciting!! i have a purple bird, which one are you going for?
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Some of them sound like a bot 😂. There's a couple I don't like there's some I am very very uncomfortable with we can't like everyone
Damn right I'm still on the pillow fight on the stitch bed??? @MissGremlin
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Nahhh mate Antarctica is the best
Mate things been like a roly poly
Glad your heater got fixed 😂😂😂 can't have @rav3n freezing lol
I got blue one i have no idea on what to do so you will be getting lots of questions 😂😂😂
Miss ya mate
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