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Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Me and you both hiding from the world
not really. I feel like a oldy today I have many thoughts atm im just going to think today
Casper snoring away 😂 he's had a big day @MissGremlin i want to be with mum i want to tell her how I really feel I want to have a coffee with her life sucks 😞 the world torn me apart
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@Sunnyside226 those thoughts can be so hard to sit with, just know I'm sitting here with you.
He's had a big day snoozing 😂.
I know you want to be with mum and to be able to talk to her and have a coffee with her. Sometimes life really does suck and the world is good at tearing us apart. Have you got some pictures of her? Was just thinking you could make yourself a coffee and sit down in the sunshine with a pic of her, I know it's not the same but trying to remember the good times you shared together can really help when things are hard.
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rav3nSenior Contributor
hey @MissGremlin & @Sunnyside226, i'm hearing today's been hard for you both and there's lots of heavy thoughts and feelings swirling around. i'm glad you both have each other to lean on, sending you both some hugs 💙
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
Hello @rav3n, thankyou for those hugs ♥️.
How are you going?
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rav3nSenior Contributor
@Sunnyside226 wrote:
@rav3n hey mate when you see this I want to say thanks for your time I loved our conversations when you checked in thanks for being there I hope life brings you happiness and joy I hope you do well on our challenge this week 😂 thanks for the laughs your an incredible woman please give mr bunny a pat from me thanks for your time 💙⭐
i just read this now, you're too kind 💙 @Sunnyside226 my bunny is right next to me lol so i did give him a pat from you, he made a lil purr sound (which is his way of saying thanks hehe) 😄
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rav3nSenior Contributor
@MissGremlin i'm sitting in my backyard and catching some sun, this is probably the warmest i've been in a while! didn't sleep too well so was hoping the sunshine would boost me up - and it's working!! how about you?
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@rav3n I've been laying on my lounge all day trying to nap but that hasn't happened. I have tears right on the edge of wanting to flow but I can't let them, not today. The sun is shining here and I enjoyed a bit of it when I took Casper out but it's very windy outside today, Casper was enjoying laying on the grass in the sun. Glad the sunshine is helping to boost you up, I hope you have a better night's sleep tonight ♥️
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Idk @MissGremlin it's a day where I didn't want to wake up go back to sleep
I have many pics of her maybe I will I don't know yet. Everything feels too complex I feel alone I feel in pain etc
I feel very off
@rav3n hey mate glad he's happy I didn't know bunny's purr I learnt something new lol he's 7/8 right? 💙
Bye I may chat later
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
@Sunnyside226 i can hear how hard it is for you right now and how much pain you are in.
Know that I'm here for you whenever you need. I hope things feel a bit better for you soon. Sending you hugs ♥️
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rav3nSenior Contributor
@MissGremlin trying to get sleep can be such a task! esp when there's so much pent up emotions, i'm so sorry to hear its been hard to release. sounds like crying it out could help relieve some tension? 💙
glad you and Casper caught some sunshine! it's starting to get windy for me too, i'm waiting for it get a lil colder before i head in hehe
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