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Support for Flowerlove22

Support for Flowerlove22

Hey @Sunnyside226 ,

I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.

I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.

Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.

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Just because you are not female doesn't mean you can't look after them. I think you've done incredibly well. I don't think I would cope looking after three kids at those ages on my own. I'm the same age as you. I am female though and I would still struggle.

Good on you for telling your brother you can't do it any more. Your mental health is more important. @Sunnyside226

To be honest I actually thought you were female like jay5 did. Sorry about that.

What are you doing this afternoon?

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@Sunnyside226 I totally agree with @Birdofparadise8 - your mental health is highest priority! It was perhaps a bit unfair to ask you to look after 3 kids solo for such a long period of time. Good on you for putting yourself first. I'm sure the kids will be a-ok, and you can focus on getting some rest.

Kitties are good hehe. I too am good! Just been gaming a lot. What about you, what is next on your agenda?

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@Birdofparadise8 it's ok I never wanted to say I was a male but now everyone knows plus sometimes I see myself as a female

I am sitting outside crying no plans yet

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What do you like to do?

Can you watch some tv, read etc to help calm down @Sunnyside226

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@Jynx you playing d&d still ? I think that's what you told me

To be honest I wouldn't say I have been okay I did something the other night because it got too much

Is razz still singing her little voice out? You said the other day she was

I am guessing you are hiding in the air conditioning 😂😂

I think I had my first breakdown on here and I am sorry

Did you do anything fun yesterday or today?

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@Birdofparadise8 i might go for a walk

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@Sunnyside226 hey I feel all sorts of genders 😂 I'm nonbinary/genderfluid, I feel like a man some days, a woman on others (though rarely) and some days I don't feel like I have any gender at all. I've always felt that gender is something everyone experiences differently, and the traditional roles that are so ingrained in society are actually pointless. People are just people, and can be capable at many things. So if you feel female sometimes, that's wonderful, and in my eyes is something to embrace, not suppress 😊

Hope having a big cry is helpful hun, get it all out!

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That sounds nice. Do you have any music you like to listen to?

Are the kids still with you @Flowerlove22?

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@Jynx to be honest I thought everyone here was a female I don't know why some of that fake names just seem soo girly (not in a bad way). That's why I didn't want someone knowing what I was because tomorrow I might awake up and feel like a girl

I feel like a big big panic attack is going to happen I feel dizzy my body is shaking in my head mind I feel lost

@Birdofparadise8 yes the kids are still here

Now I feel like I have just announced my look life on here

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Announced you look life on here

What do you mean @Sunnyside226

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