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Support for Flowerlove22

Support for Flowerlove22

Hey @Sunnyside226 ,

I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.

I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.

Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.

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Aww hugs @Sunnyside226

It can be hard when we wanna hear from people we care about, but we're getting nothing. Perhaps it could help to remember the forums aren't a 'live' chat space - so they do tend to move a lot slower. Sometimes that means you won't be able to talk to certain people every day, but it doesn't mean you're not welcome or that people don't wanna chat with you.

However, the beauty of it being this way is that people don't have to be online for us to tag them and talk to them!! Some conversations I have with members unfold over the course of weeks because we're never online at the same time! And I do love logging on to see messages already waiting for me 😊

So, even if I'm not online, you're always, always welcome to tag me, and I'm sure many others feel the same 💜

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Sitting with you my friend @Sunnyside226 😊

 

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@Shaz51 @Snowie

All I did was try to explain to Jynx what I meant I've never said anything bad all I had said was I'm not going to tag tag the workers when Jynx said I could me trying to explain it wasn't worth my head been bitten off for

So yes I'm angry yes I'm upset I'm frustrated I'm many things I can't say

I'm done trying my best to explain things. There was no need for it when I'm clearly explaining something

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You're allowed to have all those feelings @Sunnyside226

It's ok to feel that way.

Sometimes just getting things and/or writing them down can help.

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@Snowie

I'm drawing my angry feelings right now I can't explain how angry I am

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Sometimes letting it all out can help @Sunnyside226

If drawing helps then it sounds like a good idea.

When I get really angry I normally scream into a pillow. Also will go to the shed and punch the punching bag. I struggle to get words out when I'm really angry.

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Hey @Snowie sorry I didn't reply I was very angry that my head got bitten off

I didn't end up drawing I went for a long run listenING to loud angry music

The punching bag sounds good

I've never tried to scream into a pillow

Hope your day is okay

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

No need to be sorry @Sunnyside226

You looked after yourself first, which is a good thing.

Hopefully the run and the music helped you. It's good that you have things in place to try and help.

Always find the screaming into a pillow helps me.

We are all different so different things will help each of us in a different way.

I hope today goes a little better for you.

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@Snowie it helped a little

I don't want to upset anyone but it feels like I get bullied on here makes me not want to come back

I try to be friendly but I'm over being pushed so much on here sane,

Maybe if you're around later we can have a chat or something

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I'm sorry you feel that way @Sunnyside226

I should be around later for a chat. If not will get back to you as soon as I can.

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