@Sunnyside226 haha lil tyke running you off your feet! And giving advice too haha. Makes sense, I'm glad you found this space so you can connect with others who aren't kids!
You're doing the best you can under really challenging circumstances. That is absolutely enough, and from what I've seen you're doing really well. So much better than perhaps you think you are.
Crying is hard and exhausting, but also helps us regulate and release our emotions. It sounds like you needed a big cry, so I'm glad you had one, and hope you can feel a bit lighter and get some sense of relief from it.
My kitties are good, very whiny today - keep nagging me for food and play time. Silly kitties, I'm at work! I will give them some treats soon hehe.