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Support for Flowerlove22

Support for Flowerlove22

Hey @Sunnyside226 ,

I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.

I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.

Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.

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Hey @Sunnyside226 ,

What's been happening for you? Hope you are well.

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Sorry @Ru-bee

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Hey @Sunnyside226 what are you feeling you need to apologise for? I haven't noticed you do anything that you might need to say sorry for 🙂

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@Ru-bee I'm sorry you had to deal with this week

@Ru-bee is it okay if I have a deep conversation about things? It's not bad or anything. I just need to write it hoping you will have a chat with me? On here

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Yeah what's up @Sunnyside226?

Feel free to write what's on your mind and I'll be sure to respond when I can

Oh, and I haven't seen this week as anything I've had to deal with, it's been a pretty nice week, but thank you for showing that care 🙂

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Yeah @Ru-bee

This week I've been a little down

I'm feeling many things this week I didn't really want to leave the house I just wanted to stay in one place.

I feel empty

Sad a burden hopeless

This anxiety I have this week it's been hard I feel anxiety sick I've never felt this. Before

I feel trapped with 500 things in my head (since that person left)

I'm a little embarrassed to say I have butterflies in my tummy ( please nobody judge that) @Ru-bee that's a little bit of it feel free to edit anything if I've messed up the rules

🖤

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I'm sorry to hear you've been feeling anxious and down this week @Sunnyside226

It's hard when we feel those physical feelings of anxiety isn't it? It can feel like we're sick or like our stomach is churning.

Is there anything that you like to do when you're feeling down, something that helps you to feel a little better? Have you been drawing?

I'm also hearing that you're wanting to connect and chat about this which is great. I'm glad you've been able to share here and I want to offer some more supports in case it would feel helpful to connect with someone to have a one-on-one conversation: You can always give SANE a call on 1800 187 263, or you could get in touch with Beyond Blue

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@Ru-bee yeh I've never had butterflies in my tummy before. Been anxious is top for me atm. Body feels different

I honestly don't know why I have anxiety I think it's to do with people leaving building a connection with her I'll be honest without being rude or disrespectful please don't feel this is at you or anyone in sane because it's NOT

I don't really open up to females. The one female I spoke to for 2 years left I felt like I could be honest and open now she's left I feel in the garbage

I don't want to build a relationship with someone else for it to fall out again

yes I've been drawing. I got some new ones I draw today then I ripped it up

If you're comfy in answering have you had anxiety before @Ru-bee

Calling sane I've never done that before what are they like? Can you talk about anything or do you have to tell them why you called?

Sorry for raming this out.

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That experience of opening up to someone and then having that connection end would be really, really hard @Sunnyside226

The SANE phone lines have counsellors and peer workers who are really lovely. You could definitely talk to them about your feelings of anxiety, or what you're feeling about this person who has left your life recently. Having that time to talk might help by just letting it out, or you could get some handy coping skills too

I do experience anxiety, I feel it a lot in my body, like butterflies in my stomach like you described, or like a strange feeling that something's wrong. It can make it hard to relax sometimes can't it, when you have such an uncomfortable feeling.

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@Sunnyside226 wrote:

@rav3n sorry I didn't reply I played cod all night

Yh ok I'll show you some of the drawings I did music I like old school pop sometimes R&B

Fishing I'm not a fan of touching it or putting the bait on that's a big NO from me but I'll sit there just watch,


you in the mood to share some of those drawings? 😊

ooo you have good music taste! i'm currently in a phase of listening to early 2000s-2010s nostalgic music right now. @Sunnyside226

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