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tymeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Ru-bee 😂😂 they must love there mum cats are scary 😂. They make weird noises the yellow eyes at night staring at you 3 in the morning no thanks
I remember your boy was mixed wasn't he?
@Shaz51 I remember I told you about the tattoo
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Ru-bee owner/ parent cross that word out
Do you like Garfield
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Ru-beeModerator
Haha I do jokingly call myself a cat mum @Sunnyside226 😂
My boy is a shorthair tuxedo cat and my girl is a ragdoll @Shaz51
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Ru-bee that's good I just didn't want to offend you by saying mum or girl
Some people get upset
It's caved in. I'm not longer real I want my parents now. I need a hug or told it's okay it's not I'm falling apart I want to be with them. My world is falling.
I'm trying to be strong it's hard I feel trapped. I need someone to listen but I don't know what to say
Yes I'm having flashbacks PTSD. I'm always having a autistic meltdown
I'm worried about myself. I don't want to call anyone again because what if they get cranky pants I'm not okay I'm really not sure if I can be
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Ru-beeModerator
That's really thoughtful of you @Sunnyside226
We're here for you, but if you want to speak to someone on the phone calling a helpline, maybe one that's been helpful before, could be a good idea
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Ru-bee no thanks.
I spoke to one on the weekend
I spoke to one today she was a smart ass to me when she said about suicide
I reath not talk to them again today
If I did it will be what have I done in the past to help. Why does that matter that's in the past isn't it?
I wish I could sleep sleep sleep I'm done trying it's pointless when I just want someone to sit with me or talk about whatever.
@Ru-bee I went and seen baby Kitty's yesterday with one of my siblings do you want to see?
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Ru-beeModerator
Ah okay that's fair enough @Sunnyside226 I'm sorry you haven't been having good experiences with them
I'd love to see kitten photos! Hopefully I can see them before I finish, otherwise it'll be a nice start to tthe day tomorrow
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Hey mate @ArraDreaming how are you?
@Ru-bee are you still on shift? Or around?
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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