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tymeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
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RiverSealModerator
Sorry to hear that things are not going great rn @Sunnyside226! Please stay connected here on the Forums and chat with the community if you need a little support tonight. RiverSeal
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Fuck everything don't know why I bother trying I'm done don't care anymore
Don't want to be here don't need a helpline they stupid I hate myself why do I born 🤬
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RiverSealModerator
Morning @Sunnyside226, sorry to hear that you are not having a good start to the day.
Helplines are there for when you are in crisis so how would you describe what you are going through rn if it's not a crisis? The Forums are not crisis support, so that's why we refer you to other services when you present in crisis.
What do you mean when you say, "I'm done don't care anymore" and you "don't want to be here"?
I want to understand more so I can support you or refer you to somewhere that can rn.
RiverSeal
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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RiverSealModerator
Hey @ArraDreaming, I'm well thanks 🙏 just having coffee and working 😁
Enjoy the parks! Sounds like fun and an inexpensive way of entertaining the kids.
Take care
RiverSeal
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Why can't people be allowed to say what they feel? Without being what to do? Never in my sentence did I say sane was a crisis line I said I didn't want a helpline
People should be allowed to say whatever they want without being judged
(Tw). I sh the thoughts are loud don't know what to do anymore I don't want to call a helpline I don't know what I need all I want is someone to just listen without judgement do I ask to much?
Am I enough?
Am I worth helping?
Am I that bad ?
Why should I lie about not being okay without someone saying something?
Why can't I express myself like a normal person?
I know I'm a burden I know I'm not liked
Why can't we have a day without being judged?
I've cried myself to sleep didn't even sleep does everyone have to be happy on sane only?
All I can say is I'm okay but not really 😞 I'm a burden
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
FmL
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Ru-beeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 what's going on this morning?
Do you have anything on today?
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Hey @Ru-bee I'm stressing so so bad
Everything is tight
I want to be with my father
Everything is toooooooooooo much to handle I have nobody I want to do something fuck it's hurting
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Ru-beeModerator
I hear how tough everything feels right now @Sunnyside226
Can we have a bit of a chat and see if that helps? I'd love to catch up and hear if you watched anything good over the weekend
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SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.
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